Bill Clinton
Letters to the editor
More sympathy for parents with disabled children Plus: What about pro wrestling's contribution to television?; Why did Susan Brownmiller vote for a "rapist" -- twice?
I can’t hate the Kelsos
BY ANNE
MITCHELL
(01/04/00)
Hear! Hear! What Mitchell wrote was harsh and angry and absolutely right-on. My own son was destroyed by a botched delivery (in my city’s best hospital), leaving him severely brain-damaged. Back when his long post-natal hospitalization was wrapping up, we were never asked if we were up to the task of taking him home. We didn’t know what tasks lay ahead. And so we brought him home, fed him through his stomach tube every two hours, took him to physical therapy several times a week. The theme of our lives became his care, his troubles, his sad condition — all with little evidence that he was even aware of us.
While there are some options for institutional care, you’re right that there aren’t many. And we always felt that we were viewed as selfish for even thinking of those options — not by our dear therapists, doctors, and nurses, and certainly not by our friends who wondered how long it would be before we cracked. But the agencies handling our case simply didn’t consider the idea that such a child shouldn’t be a constant burden to his parents and siblings.
After months and years, our poor son died. And when I read a piece like yours, I can’t help but wonder if he did it to rescue us all from our lot. Our burden was never like yours continues to be. My heart goes out to you. If only you could feel more support and sympathy from those who know only what they’ve seen in TV movies.
– Miles P.
Anne Mitchell has it exactly right. The hospital had no business calling the law. The Kelsos would have retrieved the boy when they had a few hours to think. Nobody who has cared for a disabled child can understand the real willpower showed by the Kelsos. They need support from their community, not condemnation.
– Joel Smith
I cannot imagine the Delaware police and court system arresting and detaining the Kelso parents. It is so easy to see that they were looking for good help for their son and were exhausted. I don’t know how parents go on without cutting off the respirator. What do we expect of these people? Far more than most of us could do. I have always said we should teach young women to leave babies in the emergency room instead of garbage cans if they felt they had to dispose of them. How hypocritical are we that we force people to take care of any child when they are saying they need help?
There is truly something wrong with the whole system that it would try to “hurt” the Kelsos for leaving their child in such good hands. I had to laugh when I saw some social services type say they were going to place him in foster care. They can’t even find homes for kids with no problems — who could take care of him? It would take a hospital to replace his mom and dad — certainly no other untrained mortals.
My best wishes to the whole family and to others who had the same burdens with such little help. We now have a judge who believes they should have no contact with their son. How is that in the best interest of any of the parties? I live in Delaware and I am embarrassed by our judicial system.
– Martha Brown
Although I have never been in the Kelsos’ position, I can’t begin to imagine the toll such 24-hour care must take on the parents. Although everyone talks about the resources available for such parents, my guess is that it’s not so easy to find. Any parent who has cared for a sick child housebound with a cold, ear infection, measles or chicken pox knows how grueling that can be. Multiply that by a number incomprehensible to most of us and think what it must be like. I just wonder why they didn’t seek help or a residential facility before taking such a drastic step. My heart goes out to the parents of those children who are never free from the care and responsibilities. I’m sure they can’t call a babysitter or family member to take over. The rest of us can’t begin to know what it’s like so we shouldn’t judge them.
– Nanci Weber
Twenty ways the ’90s changed television
BY JOYCE MILLMAN
(12/22/99)
I agreed with Joyce Millman’s article for the most part, but how can you leave off professional wrestling? I think its rise to popularity over such “traditional” sports such as football was a clear demonstration of the resentment many felt toward professional sports this decade. As the world of “real” sports has become more about entertainment and marketing than the product on the court or the field, people found wrestling’s lack of pretension refreshing. Sure the matches are scripted and the performers’ conduct is outrageous, but after watching many of the things that transpired this decade, (Latrell Spreewell, the Dallas Cowboys, Holyfield vs. Lewis I), the same can be said of professional sports. At least with pro wrestling you know it’s all an act.
– Matt Jones
While I found Millman’s article to be right on the money in most aspects, I just want to point out that she missed one show. NBC’s “Law & Order” has been the consistently best cop/attorney show on television bar none. I agree that “Homicide” was also fabulous, but without “L&O” opening the doors for thoughtful crime drama, “Homicide” would never have been possible. “Law & Order” has shown us the law (and the way it’s twisted by players on both sides of the bars) as moral touchstone for many years now. Millman says in her article that “Homicide” was hanging on by its fingernails year after year and I agree that that says more about our current willingness to accept truly challenging entertainment than it does about the show. However, just because “Law & Order” has been accepted by the critics and public alike does not mean that it’s not influential and meaningful.
– Terry L. Welch
Joyce Millman’s review of the ’90s is astute, discriminating and continuously interesting. But she underrates “Northern Exposure.” I was one of the few in on it from its summer beginning and never missed it. Now that it reruns every day on A&E, I’ve been watching its cycle through five days a week with increasing amazement and delight. It not only continues to hold my interest — its characters become remarkably real people, growing and changing before your eyes.
I rank “Northern Exposure” right up there at the top of the all-time list, followed by “All in the Family,” “MASH,” “Hill Street Blues,” “Twin Peaks” and “Naked City.” Given the fate of David Lynch’s aborted series for ABC, I doubt that we’ll see another “Northern Exposure.”
– Gerald Trett
Twilight of a Feminist
BY DAVID
BOWMAN
(12/22/99)
While I find it refreshing to hear a feminist such as Susan Brownmiller criticize Bill Clinton, I am baffled by her tolerance of a person she believes to be a rapist holding the office of president of the United States. At her Web site, Brownmiller states that she believes Juanita Broderick’s accusations against Clinton, but she also tells us she twice voted for him and would not call for his resignation. If committing rape is not enough reason for a president to step down, what is?
– Robert Franklin
Feminism is not about a war for equal rights, but a war on all rights, like its analogues, African national socialism and Christian fundamentalism. As much as Brownmiller postures about separating herself from the visible insanity of feminism, it is the logical consequence of her earlier work. She cannot now claim ‘But this is not what I meant’ without repudiating the foundation of her movement’s misanthropy. Like Bolshevism before it, feminism’s greatest harm has been to the group whose interest it claims to support.
– Richard Henkus
Naked Eye
BY DANIEL SIEBERG
(12/22/99)
Daniel Sieberg’s story was an annoying whine of a read. He felt “violated, angry, afraid,” after a hacker broke into his home computer. He claims he was “trolling” soft-core sites on the Net for a graduate school research project when he was victimized by a Trojan horse.
Are we really supposed to sympathize with someone who feels great fear because someone hacked his computer? This diminishes acts of crime that truly merit great fear: rape, child abuse, nuclear proliferation, the starvation of millions of people, the degradation of the environment.
After reading his article, I admired the Australian hacker. At least the hacker had some kind of discernible character and sense of humor, despite his prudishness. He turned the image on the author’s monitor upside down, and sent a sound file of his voice saying, “Well, g’day. I’m your friendly hacker in Australia.” The first human-sounding, confidently written words in the story came from the hacker!
– Todd Ojala
False Memory Syndrome
BY KEVIN GIORDANO
(12/22/99)
Cheers to Kevin Giordano and Salon for publishing his excellent article on false memory syndrome. I am delighted Valerie Jenks was able to get on with her life in spite of the truly abusive treatment she received in therapy. I am a mother who has been accused by my son. His early recovered memories were of sexual abuse. Now he doubts their accuracy, but they have so contaminated his feelings about me that he insists upon no further contact. His world and mine have been turned upside down. We are both heartbroken.
– Irene L. Miller
The suggestibility of memories and of hypnotized patients is a very serious issue, but your article far oversimplified the situation. I have several friends with dissociative disorders (of which “multiple personalities” is the most widely known). Some have had years of therapy, some have had none, some have been diagnosed with bipolar or depressive conditions and treated for that. Many of them have no memory whatsoever of their childhood.
I have been a good listener and expressed understanding of their condition. Many people have suggested they are lying to me, but I doubt that for many reasons. The most convincing reason to me is that they exhibit many similar behavioral patterns that I have not read anything about in the documentation about this disorder — behavior that they would not know to do if they were “faking” it.
I hope that the abuse of hypnotic therapy can be separated from the real problems of people with dissociative disorders and not prevent them from getting help.
– Merriam L. Anthony
Romney’s Bill Clinton gambit
He's praising the former president to paint Obama as a liberal – and to court his devotees. Why it won't work
(Credit: Reuters/Jim Young) Desperate Mitt Romney is not only taking credit for the auto bailout he opposed, and pretending to be a “job creator” rather than a Bain Capital job destroyer. Now he’s regularly praising former President Bill Clinton as a centrist whose legacy has been betrayed by the “liberal” President Obama. Actual liberals laugh, but can Romney’s gambit work?
Of course not, but Mitt’s not giving up.
In Lansing, Mich., last week, Romney derided Obama as an “old school liberal” compared to Clinton, whom he called a “new Democrat.” Where Clinton “said the era of big government was over, President Obama brought it back with a vengeance,” Romney told a crowd of college students. A campaign official told CNN that Obama “really turned his back” on Clinton’s policies, including welfare reform and middle-class tax cuts.
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The politicization of the Secret Service scandal
What was once one of the right's favorite government agencies becomes a symbol of waste and moral degradation
President Obama, surrounded by members of the Secret Service, upon his arrival in San Diego, Sept. 26, 2011. (Credit: AP/Pablo Martinez Monsivais) It’s hard to work up much outrage about the Secret Service prostitution scandal, in which 11 members of the president’s elite protective service and various military personnel were found to have picked up escorts in Colombia, where they were doing advance work for the president’s visit. I guess it is probably not a good idea for the people in charge of protecting the president to leave themselves vulnerable to sexual blackmail, but on the other hand we do not live in a John Le Carré novel or “24″ episode, and I don’t think the threat of a honey-trap assassination conspiracy plot is very credible. If members of the Secret Service want to get drunk and hire escorts after work, that is their business. (As Melissa Gira Grant says, the only actual scandal here — and the reason this became an international incident — is that all these guys tried to bilk one of the women out of the money she was owed.)
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Alex Pareene writes about politics for Salon and is the author of "The Rude Guide to Mitt." Email him at apareene@salon.com and follow him on Twitter @pareene More Alex Pareene.
Bill Clinton handicaps Obama’s 2012 chances
Bubba weighs in on the president's shot at another term, and sizes up the Republican candidates
(Credit: Fox News) Bill Clinton sat down for an long interview with Bill O’Reilly last night on Fox News, where the two discussed everything from economic and immigration policy, to the horse-race politics of the 2012 election. Clinton issued a favorable forecast for Barack Obama’s re-election — saying his prospects were better than 50/50 — and commented that the president’s current, tougher political posture would help him in the long run.
Continue Reading CloseShould liberals be more thankful for Obama?
He won healthcare and banking reform as well as the super committee standoff. Great. We have to keep pushing VIDEO
(Credit: AP/iStockphoto/sjlocke/Salon) I got to debate Jonathan Chait about his much-discussed New York magazine piece, “When Did Liberals Become So Unreasonable?” on “Hardball” Tuesday night. He’s aiming at President Obama’s liberal critics, but in fact his article proves that criticism is nothing new. Apparently, we’ve always been unreasonable, because Chait’s survey of Democratic presidents going back to FDR finds that the left has always found a reason to squawk. But he seems to think we’re particularly unreasonable when it comes to Obama. With Thanksgiving ahead, I found myself wondering whether liberals should be more grateful to the president.
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Bill Clinton’s alternate, unbelievable reality
Even the Big Dog himself would have an impossible time with today's GOP
Bill Clinton (Credit: Reuters/Lucas Jackson) As Democrats survey the political wreckage of the last three years, the temptation to imagine more pleasant alternate realities is irresistible. What if Hillary Clinton had been elected president instead of Obama? Would events have played out any differently? Or, even more tantalizingly (albeit technically impossible), what if the Big Dog himself, Bill Clinton, had been in charge the last three years? Would he have done a better job fixing the economy? Been more effective knocking heads with the Tea Party? Established himself as a better bet to win a second term?
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Andrew Leonard is a staff writer at Salon. On Twitter, @koxinga21. More Andrew Leonard.
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