Education
Deadly ambivalence
Schools need to teach our kids how much they matter. If they don't, we will see Santana and Columbine copycat shootings again and again.
The news is all too familiar: Another school shooting, two teenagers dead, 13 injured, thousands traumatized. The heart aches, although we’ve seen it all before: the sobbing girls, their blond ponytails whipped across their crumpled faces by the winds gusting from the choppers overhead. The fathers, stunned with horror and relief, clutching their not-shot, not-arrested, not-dead crewcut sons to their chests. The mothers running toward the empty school, crossing police lines, dodging ambulances and reporters, screaming their children’s names. We’ve seen it all before, but each time, the heart is ripped again.
The kids are white again: the shooter and the students he shot. The shooter is a boy again — this time he’s 15, a freshman — and once again, he’s a kid who got picked on at school all the time. It’s another large suburban school — there are 1,900 kids at Santana High School, in Santee, near San Diego. We don’t know much about the boy who did the shooting yet, but from early reports he fit the increasingly familiar profile of the schoolyard gunman — a white teenage boy, a misfit, in a large suburban high school.
According to his best friend, the shooter bragged all weekend that he was going to do this on Monday. He even invited his friends to join him. “But we said no,” his friend says.
“Did he have access to guns?” the reporter asks the peach-fuzzy 14-year-old. The boy nods, yes. “His dad had lots of guns,” he says, and rattles off their calibers.
The mind struggles to understand — How did he know all that? Did these boys play with guns? Did the father take them shooting? But the reporter is on to the next question. “Why didn’t you tell anyone that your best friend was threatening to go to school on Monday and shoot a whole lot of people?”
“At the end of the weekend he said he was just kidding,” the friend answers. “I didn’t want to get him in trouble if he was just kidding.” Against the background audiovisual of sirens screaming around him, his bleeding, dazed classmates being loaded onto gurneys, the SWAT teams sweeping the campus for bombs, the boy adds, “Anyway — he’s not the kind of kid to do something like this.”
Apparently, though, he is that kind of kid. And just exactly what kind of kid, the politicians, pundits and psychologists will spend the next days and weeks pondering, is that? These few things we know.
He was the kind of kid whose father owned guns and didn’t keep his son from getting to them. The kind of kid who was picked on, often, at his large, suburban school. The kind of kid who spent a weekend telling his closest friends — and their parents — that he was going to go to school on Monday and shoot as many of his classmates as he could.
Was he the kind of kid who told these children and adults what he was planning in hopes that they’d believe him, and stop him? Or the kind of kid so used to being disregarded or disbelieved that he spent two days threatening to execute his classmates without fear that his plan would be interrupted?
Was he the kind of kid who looked at every adult who crossed his path at school each day, wondering if this teacher, that coach, maybe the librarian, was someone he could talk to, someone who might have the power to rescue him from his private adolescent hell?
These things we may never know.
“We’ve had drills for this kind of thing,” the distraught principal tells the battalion of reporters, flown instantly to the scene, jostling for position at the impromptu press conference. “We were prepared.” Prepared for a 15-year-old opening fire in the boys’ bathroom? Are we meant to be reassured?
“I should have turned him in,” says the best friend’s father. “I’ll never forgive myself.”
“The best prevention for a tragedy like this,” says our new president, George W. Bush, as the cameras click and whir, “is to teach children the difference between right and wrong.”
The difference between right and wrong. And what, exactly, is that?
Is it right or wrong that we send our teenagers to overcrowded schools the size of factories, staffed with teachers paid (in California, home of this latest high school tragedy) two-thirds the salaries of prison guards, and “counselors” assigned to several hundred students apiece, thereby guaranteeing that few if any adults on campus know our kids’ names, let alone what they need?
Is it right or wrong that we know perfectly well what works for our teenagers — they need smaller schools and classrooms, staffed by professionals with time to get to know them, a rigorous curriculum with solid links to the world of work and community around them — and yet we provide this only for a minority of American kids, most of them the lucky few whose parents can afford to send them to private schools?
Is it right or wrong that most of our children grow up knowing that they’re not worth to us what affluent kids in private schools get: the small, well-equipped campuses; the challenging, intimate classes, staffed by teachers who hold their students and students’ families accountable, and who are themselves held accountable for teaching and caring for their students? Do we think it’s an accident that these types of shootings simply never occur in private schools?
The hue and cry that will arise in the wake of the San Diego school shooting is as predictable as death and taxes. Many will blame the parents. Many will call for metal detectors and zero-tolerance policies in the schools. Others will call for gun control, for prosecuting minors as adults, for building new juvenile detention facilities and jails. We will probe the emptiness of our culture; we will bemoan the alienation of our youth.
But the burning question raised by San Diego — and by the children we have lost at Columbine, at Jonesboro, Ark., or Springfield, Ore.; by the children we have lost to violence in inner-city schools, by the students we are losing far less mediagenically in public school classrooms every day — is not why this is happening, but what we are willing to do about it.
In the course of writing and promoting my last book, “Class Dismissed: A Year in the Life of an American High School,” I spent time in all kinds of high schools, all over the country. I saw kids at the edges of their seats, on fire with learning; I saw many more kids sleeping through their classes and their lives. I saw schools whose idea of violence prevention involved metal detectors, security cameras and locker searches; I saw private schools and small schools within large public schools — “alternative learning communities,” “academies,” “remedial programs” — that protect, and educate, their kids by knowing and caring about them.
The small schools don’t all succeed in sending every one of their students to Harvard, or even to college. But without exception, the ones I saw succeed in holding their students tight within a framework of values and expectations. They succeed in keeping their students safe from the rage of rejection, the alienation of anonymity.
Our teenagers need to know that they matter. Whether their parents can afford private school or not, they need to see that in their classrooms, in their school libraries, in their teachers’ eyes. They need to know that those who are entrusted with giving them what they need — their parents, yes, but their country, too — will give them the best we have to offer.
As long as American public schools are monuments to our ambivalence about what, exactly, our children deserve, our teenagers will rightfully conclude that nothing they feel, or learn, or do, really matters. We have seen the consequences of that conclusion, and it is deadly.
Meredith Maran is a stringer and book reviewer for People magazine and the author of nine nonfiction books including "My Lie" and "What It’s Like to Live Now." Her first novel, "A Theory Of Small Earthquakes," will be published by Counterpoint in 2012. She’s the mother of two sons, 31 and 32, and she’ll be a grandmother in five months and 12 days, but who’s counting? More Meredith Maran.
Disabled — and handcuffed at school
Underfunded schools are facing an influx of students with disabilities -- and using increasingly brutal discipline
(Credit: Alexander Raths via Shutterstock)
There’s a danger looming in schools today that’s putting our nation’s most vulnerable children at risk. Around the country, teachers and administrators are struggling to meet the needs of a growing population of disabled students, and they are entering school environments ill-prepared to educate these children responsibly, thanks to a lack of both adequate training and resources. This lack of preparation for handling students’ special needs is, in turn, sparking a disturbing and dangerous trend: the use of harmful “zero tolerance” policies that end in seclusion, restraint, expulsion and – too often – law enforcement intervention for the disabled children involved.
s.e. smith is a writer and editor whose work has appeared in Bitch, Feministe, Global Comment, the Sun Herald, the Guardian, and other publications. Follow smith on Twitter: @sesmithwrites. More s.e. smith.
Quebec students mark 100 days of tuition protests
Tuesday's protests came on the heels of a new emergency law that aims to to limit public protests
Thousands of protesters march through the streets of Montreal in a massive demonstration against tuition fee hikes on Tuesday, May 22, 2012. (AP Photo/The Canadian Press, Ryan Remiorz)(Credit: AP) MONTREAL (AP) — Tens of thousands of students marched through the streets of Montreal to mark 100 days since the movement against higher tuition fees began. Tuesday’s protest came after Quebec’s provincial government passed emergency legislation intended to end Canada’s most sustained student demonstrations ever.
The peaceful protest turned more violent in the evening as demonstrators set off fireworks and threw beer bottles at police. Riot police responded with pepper spray. Police spokesman Simon Delorme said at least 100 people were arrested. Two police officers were injured, and four people were taken to the hospital. The extent of their injuries was not immediately known
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Kelley Williams-Bolar just wanted her kids to go to a safer school -- then her story took an unexpected turn
Kelley Williams-Bolar is giving a speech in the dark. The Ohio mom is rattling off the standard remarks she’s delivered in public appearances since being catapulted onto the national stage last year. It’s an unseasonably warm day and the lights in the room are off, her face lit only by the glow of the computer screen in her father’s home. The address on the door outside is the one she used on her now-famous falsified documents—the ones that landed her in jail for nine days for illegally enrolling her daughters in a neighboring public school district.
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These days, a law degree comes with $150,000 of debt -- and no guarantee of a job after graduation
(Credit: Vince Clements via Shutterstock) Last summer a young lawyer wrote to me about her struggles to find employment. Her story was all too familiar: After graduating with honors from a middling law school, she was unable to find a real legal job, and was reduced to taking a series of temporary, low-paying positions that did not allow her to even begin to pay off educational debts that, three years after graduation, had ballooned to nearly a quarter of a million dollars.
Rather than merely lamenting her situation, however, she explained to me she was more fortunate than many of her fellow recent graduates: “I know that I am better off than a lot of these younger lawyers. I get job interviews. I can afford the apartment I share with my friend. I have a great resume. I am an excellent researcher and writer. I rarely go to bed hungry anymore.”
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Jefferson’s lifelong dream
The GOP praises the founding father as a small-government champion, but he saw the value of investing in education
Thomas Jefferson (Credit: White House Historical Association) “The only security of all is in a free press.” Thomas Jefferson wrote these words to the Marquis de Lafayette at the age of 80. The reason Jefferson lauded a free press was that he wished, in tense political times, for the U.S. to function as a deliberative democracy, in which an increasingly better-educated citizenry monitored the policy decisions of its elected representatives and judged whether or not they deserved to remain in office.
A better-educated citizenry. That was Jefferson’s mantra, and it should be ours, too. Republicans in Congress have claimed Jefferson as their man, time and again quoting him as a champion of small government. One of their favorites lines is, “If it were possible to obtain a single amendment to our Constitution,” it would be “taking from the Federal Government the power of borrowing.” The Jefferson they do not pay attention to is the one whose lifelong dream was a well-funded public education system — the Jefferson who spent his post-presidential retirement years creating a beautiful public university in Charlottesville, Virginia. Jefferson asked no less a figure than U.S. Attorney General William Wirt, notably the son of a Maryland tavern-keeper, to be its president. He understand that personal growth and national strength were best served by lifting up ordinary folks.
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