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Friday, Jun 8, 2001 9:24 PM UTC2001-06-08T21:24:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

Banish the Boogeymom!

By Jennifer Foote Sweeney

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I returned to the workforce three months ago, after being home for almost 14 months with my only daughter.

I have almost completed my doctorate in family studies, specializing in marriage and family therapy. I am a family researcher. I know the studies, and I can read them critically for sample size, methodology and faulty conclusions. I have all the information I need to go to work armed with the knowledge that I am not damaging my daughter, that she is thriving in peer relationships, learning that there are others who can love and care for her.

Nonetheless, I have been wracked with guilt about my decision to go to work. I am one of those for whom it is not a financial necessity but rather a personal necessity and actually wish sometimes we did need the money so my return to work would be necessary to the financial well-being of the family. This is the twisted logic that comes from exposure to that generalized yet pervasive rhetoric that somehow it is bad for me to work.

Jennifer Sweeney’s article, especially her comparison of this rhetoric to “bathroom humor,” put a sorely needed spin on the situation. I wanted to write to express my appreciation for her perspective and her talent in conveying it.

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Friday, Feb 17, 2012 10:07 AM UTC2012-02-17T10:07:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

Erin Burnett: Worst of the worst

The CNN host speaks on the "frightening" Iranian threat in ways that have to be seen to be believed

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I’m finishing up a long investigative article that will be posted later this morning, but I just could not let go unnoted this commentary on The Iranian Threat by CNN’s Erin Burnett (“frightening,” she observed). I barely know what to say about it — the critiques of media fear-mongering I wrote the last two days apply in spades to this — but it really just mocks itself. It’s the sort of thing you would produce if you set out to create a mean-spirited parody of mindless, war-hungry, fear-mongering media stars, but you wouldn’t dare go this far because you’d want the parody to have a feel of realism to it, and this would be way too extreme to be believable. She really hauled it all out: WMDs! Terrorist sleeper cells in the U.S. controlled by Tehran! Iran’s long-range nuclear missiles reaching our homeland!!!! She almost made the anti-Muslim war-mongering fanatic she brought on to interview, Rep. Peter King, appear sober and reasonable by comparison.

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Friday, Feb 17, 2012 1:00 AM UTC2012-02-17T01:00:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

The next generation of color geniuses

Two Parsons professors discuss their best students' work and their favorite classic color theorists

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Bezold Effect study  (Credit: Liz Marshall)

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ImprintWelcome back to an ongoing, freewheeling conversation on color with Thomas Bosket and Langdon Graves, who both teach color theory at Parsons the New School for Design. (Read part 1 to catch up.)

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Friday, Feb 17, 2012 1:00 AM UTC2012-02-17T01:00:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

I found my orgasm

She used to find it hard to climax, but suddenly, inexplicably, it became quick and easy. What happened?

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For the longest time, I found it really difficult to orgasm. Even with the most sensitive partner, it would often take a long while, if at all. I would often resort to faking it because I was taking too long. Even while masturbating, it sometimes took me up to an hour, despite being really turned on.

Then I started seeing someone new, stopped faking orgasms and tried to worry less. I started coming, and it became easier and more reliable. Now it happens every time, sometimes multiple times. While masturbating, I can orgasm within seconds, which was never, ever possible before. What’s going on here?

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Friday, Feb 17, 2012 1:00 AM UTC2012-02-17T01:00:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

Pick of the week: Escape from Putin’s cult

Pick of the week: Inside the creepy groupthink of the Russian president's proto-fascist youth movement

Pick of the week

Vladimir Putin, Russia’s president turned prime minister (turned president again, probably) likes to say that his country has developed a “special democracy” or “sovereign democracy” in the 21st century. As an opposition politician observes in Danish director Lise Birk Pedersen’s film “Putin’s Kiss,” that’s a little like a store owner claiming to sell somewhat fresh fish. It either is or it isn’t, and Russia’s version of democracy doesn’t pass the smell test. (Please note, foreign readers, that I’m not holding my own country’s political system up as some shining example. But it’s still true that I can write what I want to about Obama or Romney or anybody else without being beaten half to death.)

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Friday, Feb 17, 2012 1:00 AM UTC2012-02-17T01:00:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

A witty, tragic series concludes

The final installment delves into the psyche of a troubled, alcohol protagonist after his mother's death

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The first thing you will want to know about “At Last,” the final volume in Edward St. Aubyn’s five-novel cycle starring Patrick Melrose, is that, yes, you really do have to read the preceding four if you want to appreciate it fully. The second is that if reading about wealthy, conceited, selfish, dissipated, cruel, monstrously awful people is not for you, then, alas, neither are these novels. The third is that the books are brilliant. They are also highly idiosyncratic: Each installment is both a comedy of manners and a wrenching psychological investigation; each oscillates between satire and tragedy, and all are written with flash and brio, ornamented by inspired simile, and spangled with mordant, Wildean wit.

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