Since 1967, when Gerald Shur created the federal Witness Security Program, or WITSEC, almost 7,500 witnesses and their 14,000 family members have been relocated in the United States. That means that some of those 21,500 people — former Mob hit men, Colombian drug gangsters, international terrorists, and their families (and lovers) — might be shopping, getting takeout and attending PTA meetings in a quiet suburb near you. And, of course, the viability of WITSEC demands that you never know about their criminal past.
Shur retired from the U.S. Department of Justice’s Organized Crime and Racketeering Section in 1994. During his 30-year tenure, he oversaw WITSEC’s protection of 6,146 witnesses and their dependents. Shur offered freedom and anonymity to every Mafia witness since the 1960s (like Henry Hill of “Goodfellas” fame), members of Pablo Escobar’s notorious Medellín cartel and Islamist terrorists involved in the 1993 World Trade Center bombing in exchange for their testimony.
Not surprisingly, Shur came under fire for championing a program that lets seasoned criminals loose in society, even though 82 percent of them never commit another crime. For the most part, these criticisms of WITSEC are well documented in “WITSEC: Inside the Federal Witness Protection Program,” Shur and journalist Pete Earley’s collaborative account — part memoir, part investigative history — of Shur’s years commanding the program. It’s an entertaining and informative book, calibrating all the thrills of the criminal underworld with the finer frustrations of coordinating a controversial program among the many bickering departments in government. But for all the dirty details from WITSEC “snitches,” one of the best, and most tragic, tales in the book is the story of Witness X, the wife of a Brooklyn mobster, who explains how her life fell apart after she was thrust into the program.
Shur and Earley spoke to Salon from their homes about how WITSEC convinced Mafia witnesses to break the code of “omertà” or silence, why international terrorists make good WITSEC candidates and how Shur himself at one time became a WITSEC participant.
This question is for Pete Earley: Were there certain criticisms of WITSEC that you were particularly curious about?
Earley: By its nature it is a very controversial program because you’re taking people who are — and this is not a word that Gerry uses, but I do — snitches, and you’re rewarding them.
Shur: That’s a word that I always tell people not to use in front of me. These people are finally doing the right thing. They’re cooperating.
Earley: Gerry says that he doesn’t like the word “reward,” but you’re in essence letting them off the hook a little lighter than someone else to get the bigger fish.
Shur: Actually, it’s not WITSEC that lets them off lighter. That has to do with another process. When we decide to put somebody in the witness program, we have no input into what their sentences would be.
How bad was the Mafia in 1961 when you started working for the Justice Department?
Shur: They dominated the criminal activity of most major cities. They were in over 50 different industries. In many areas, they controlled the movement of goods; in New York, they controlled things down to electrical permits, the garbage industry and building La Guardia Airport. They dominated many unions in the United States.
There are two positions inside La Cosa Nostra that make it different than organized crime. One is the corrupter, the person who’s supposed to go out and bribe people — councilmen, cops, agents — so he can keep the operation going. The other one is the enforcer, the one who maintains the internal integrity of the organization, kills informants and witnesses and follows the code of omertà ["law of silence"].
Earley: The other thing you should realize was that not only did the Mafia have tremendously more power than it does today, but law enforcement knew very little about it. We’ve all seen “The Godfather,” we’ve all seen “The Sopranos,” but the truth is, until Joe Valachi [a 30-year veteran New York criminal and member of the Vito Genovese crime family who identified 317 mob members] came forward in the 1960s, nobody knew about any of that.
Shur: J. Edgar Hoover specifically didn’t want to admit there was such a thing as the Mafia. So the FBI did not have a lot of resources devoted to fighting organized crime until Bobby Kennedy became attorney general and ordered it.
What made Valachi different? Why was he one of the first people to break this code of silence?
Shur: He was going to be murdered. He was in the federal penitentiary in Atlanta, having been convicted on a narcotics case involving a very notorious racketeer named Vito Genovese. Then, one day, Valachi actually got this kiss on the cheek that you hear about, indicating that he was going to be done in. He decided that he knew who was going to kill him, picked up a lead pipe one day, whacked this guy over the head [in the prison yard]. He killed the wrong guy. Valachi goes to the warden and says, “Get me the feds, I want to talk to them.”
Earley: What you discover when you talk to these Mafia types is that everybody wants to look in the mirror and feel good about themselves. They all had an explanation for turning against their former pals. Their general explanation was that they’d fallen out of favor and were about to get killed, or were going to do big time in a penitentiary. This was their way out.
Shur: That’s one of the principal incentives. They would say, “They’re going to kill me,” or “They took away the moneymaking part of the business,” or “I went to jail and did time and they didn’t treat my family right.”
Did you offer Valachi protection first?
Shur: There wasn’t a witness protection program at the time. He simply came in and offered up this information. We had, for the first time, a living being who was going to tell us what the Mafia’s really like. The first thing he tells us is that it’s not called the Mafia, it’s called La Cosa Nostra ["our thing"]. That’s the first time we hear the name.
Do you believe that WITSEC broke omertà? Do you think it sent irreversible ripples throughout the Mafia community?
Shur: Oh yeah. WITSEC and wiretapping, two major things in the investigative phase. You’re listening in on their telephones, so they go out in the street to talk. They’re talking to a person and whispering in his ear and that person turns out to be our witness that’s coming into the program the next day. Their communications were terribly disrupted; it caused distrust in the organization. Not only did we get tens of thousands of convictions, but we caused an organization to be quite upset. How do you deal with each other? Anyone could turn you in tomorrow.
Earley: Nobody trusted anyone after that.
What was surprising to me, though — and you mentioned that they often said they’d “fallen out of favor with their family” — was that they were just as eager to gain acceptance from the police.
Shur: Yes, they had to belong to an organization. Suddenly, they would start to say “We’re going to convict.” It was an “I need to be attached” and “I need approval” kind of thing. As Joe Valachi kept saying to me: “Did I do all right, Gerry?”
After all of your experiences with these men, do you have a more complex understanding of them? Or do you mostly feel that they’re cold, brutal killers?
Shur: Well, those who kill are killers. But I don’t believe in saying they’re bad people; I believe that people do bad things. Once you say they are bad people, you are then saying that there is nothing I can do to rehabilitate or change them. If you say they’re people who do bad things, then perhaps I can alter some of that behavior.
Why do you think that WITSEC is a rehabilitation program?
Shur: We do things that you don’t get when you come out of prison. When you come out of prison, you get a bus ticket out of town and a little assistance in finding work. When we relocate a witness, we have a witness security inspector who’s assigned to take care of the family’s needs. The witness is helped getting a job, finding a place to live, he gets a check until he finds a job. If he has a health problem, he has a person he calls who comes over. We give him psychological aid. They’re getting very intense social worker help — from someone who’s also trained to carry a gun and arrest people.
Earley: And there’s also a very good reason for this. If they become exposed publicly, they’ll be killed. So there’s a good incentive to stay hidden and make the program work.
But what about when someone’s demands become too much? You talk about how you need to keep these people happy, and that seems like a daunting task.
Shur: When the guy says to you, “If you don’t send me to France, I’m not going to testify,” or says to you, “I’m not going to have black deputies around me. If you put black deputies around me, I’m not going to testify” or “If you don’t give me this number of thousand dollars a month …” I tell them, “Hey, this is what you get.”
Earley: How about the guy and his girlfriend?
Are you talking about the guy who demanded penis surgery because he wasn’t able to have sex otherwise?
Shur: Well, that’s one. A psychiatrist came forward and said that the guy absolutely needed that surgery or he’d commit suicide. The object was to have the people treated, at least medically, as they would have been at home. No plastic surgery like in the movies.
Earley: Of course, there were the breast implants for Aladena “Jimmy the Weasel” Fratianno’s wife. [Fratianno was known as the "Mafia's executioner on the West Coast" and contacted the FBI in 1977 after being indicted for murder and having a hit put out on him by Los Angeles crime boss Dominic Brooklier.] And there’s the case where a guy asked Gerry to move his girlfriend but not his wife.
Oh, boy. It’s amazing — in many cases, you did have to relocate girlfriends and wives.
Shur: He knew in his heart that [his wife] would be killed. So the object was to have me become the substitute for his divorce court. I wasn’t about to do that.
Let me go to something that’s more current. The first Middle Eastern people I dealt with, and some Israeli prisoners that we’ve had, were used to bargaining. So if you said to them, “We’ll give you $600 a month to live on,” they would always start up high: “Well, I want $1,800.” I had a sense of being in a bazaar at times. One person who offered to testify in a terrorist case — one that I can’t identify — told me that he’d testify if I gave him a million dollars cash. No way.
Since we’re talking about international terrorists, what kind of complications arose from trying to deal with them?
Shur: Cultural differences. We had another Middle Easterner who wanted his wife to be subservient. He didn’t want her going to college, he didn’t want her driving a car, he didn’t want her wearing Western clothing. She was privately telling us that she wanted to do all these things. Do you sneak her out and let her go to college? We arranged for a counselor to meet with both of them and talk it through.
Do you think WITSEC is being used in the investigation of Sept. 11?
Earley: Absolutely.
Shur: It will be, but you can’t say it is. If there are trials, then you have to have witnesses, and if you have to have witnesses then they likely will be members of al-Qaida, and those people will have to go into the witness program.
Earley: Al-Qaida members already have testified. In 1998, in the embassy bombings case, some al-Qaida members were hidden by WITSEC after they testified about Osama bin Laden.
Shur: And in the 1993 World Trade Center case.
And they’re relocated in the U.S.?
Earley: That’s correct.
But one might think, after all we’ve heard about al-Qaida members willing to die for their cause, that being offered a new life somewhere in the Midwest — in a country they supposedly despise — wouldn’t be all that appealing. And it might be hard to believe that they wouldn’t return to their old terrorist ways. Does this worry you?
Earley: The most recent case of an al-Qaida member entering WITSEC was a witness who testified in the 1998 embassy bombings in Kenya and Tanzania. The case could not have been made without him. What makes this interesting is the chronology. The fellow who ended up testifying had been living in Brooklyn when he was first recruited at his local mosque to join al-Qaida. He then moved to the Middle East, went through Osama bin Laden’s training camps and rose up the hierarchy until he was near the top. He became disillusioned with the terrorist group when he learned that bin Laden was paying higher salaries to many of his friends than to his other followers. This led to him stealing al-Qaida funds. Afraid that the organization would kill him, he ended up volunteering as a witness.
There are three mistakes that people make when it comes to terrorists.
One is [not understanding] that most of the high-ranking officials in al-Qaida have lived or studied in the United States. Many were recruited here to fight the Soviets in Afghanistan. This means that they are aware of our customs, which makes it easier for them to be relocated, and it also suggests that many of them didn’t really hate the United States as deeply as you might have thought. Yes, they do not want the U.S. involved in Middle Eastern affairs, but they didn’t mind living here before Osama bin Laden went after the U.S.
You also should realize that most of the foot soldiers who were being controlled by al-Qaida and the Taliban were poor and ignorant people. Oftentimes, their parents turned them over to Islamic schools because the families couldn’t support them. These soldiers are not who the government is hoping to “flip over.” And they are the most militant.
Second, while members of the Mafia didn’t hate the United States, they, too, belonged to a secret society whose values were in direct opposition to our own. Yet, when these killers, who had dedicated their lives to organized crime, became witnesses, they often turned into zealots for the government. You might think that terrorists would be harder to crack, but I wonder. Self-survival is a strong instinct.
And lastly, no one in the government is going to run the risk of putting an unrepentant terrorist in a neighborhood. Tighter monitoring can be done. Also, recall that WITSEC is a two-step system. The first is prison, and then only witnesses who are not deemed to be a risk are relocated.
Ask yourself this: If a terrorist had come to the FBI on Sept. 10 and said, “I know about a major attack coming down tomorrow in New York City” — what would you have offered him in exchange for his cooperation? And even if he had gone bad eventually, how many lives would you have saved by using his information the first time around?
Shur: Also, consider the Witness Security Reform Act, which sets out factors that must be considered before a witness may be placed in the WITSEC. The law clearly sets out what I had to consider in every case and would have to be considered in connection with al-Qaida. What it gets down to is that you don’t put anybody into the witness program without making a determination whether society is better off.
I actually dealt with the first World Trade Center bombing and terrorists in the ’80s. Once they decided to testify, they didn’t want to get in any trouble. The only place to go for help is the government. I can’t recall an incident where a terrorist committed another crime after being in the program. They don’t want to go to prison and they’re looking for the best deal they can get. One motivation is “I got caught and I really don’t want to die.” And then there’s the opportunity to live a good life without being threatened. It’s not bad living in the United States. But if you believe he’ll do more damage, you don’t relocate him.
What else does it take for someone to qualify for WITSEC in the first place?
Shur: They must have very, very important information that they will testify to. Are there other ways we can introduce the same evidence without using the witness? Then if we conclude it’s very important, I want to know whether he’s really in danger. We have people testifying in murder trials every day, and those people aren’t killed. In organized crime cases and narcotics cases, you have a much higher risk. Then I would look to see whether the person would fit into the program. Can we deal with him? Will he abide by the rules of the program?
Was there any point in your career where you particularly wrestled with the idea of murderers being let loose in society? Was there any moment where you were really grappling with this?
Shur: I was always concerned about it, but one thing I realized was that I wasn’t releasing this murderer in society, this murderer is already in society. And he’s in society with 35 others, like Salvatore “Sammy the Bull” Gravano was. [Gravano, who killed 19 people himself, helped put away John Gotti in 1992]. And if we take Sammy Gravano and use him, we can put 35 murderers in prison, leaving one out who promises he’ll never commit a crime again. That turned out to be right; WITSEC’s recidivism rate is about 10 percent now. Compare that to the state’s recidivism rate of 40 to 50 percent.
But to put the question differently: Did some of these people really trouble me? Yes. Are there times, with hindsight, I look back and say, why did we put that witness in the program? We should have put the defendant in the program and had the defendant testify against the witness.
Was there any particular case, besides the case of Marion Albert Pruett, that you felt was a failure? [Pruett was a convicted bank robber who testified against Allen "Big Al" Benton after "Big Al" murdered William Zambito while all three men were in the Atlanta Penitentiary in 1978. After testifying and entering WITSEC, Pruett went on an interstate crime spree, robbing stores and banks and killing eight people.]
Shur: I never viewed Pruett as a failure of the program. The witness security program didn’t cause Pruett to kill. There were cases that caused me to feel awfully bad. But it wasn’t that I would have to rethink whether we should’ve put someone in the program. It’s that once we’re dealing with a criminal, is there anything else we can do to minimize the chance that he’ll commit crime? That was my concern.
Was there any specific example?
Shur: After Pruett, of course, I thought we should be much more intensive in making psychiatrists and psychologists available, and very early on.
And you do administer psychological tests.
Shur: Yes, to everybody over the age of 18. The first reason we did them was because [Pruett] went off and killed a lot of people and Congress said, “We want you to predict violence with psychological testing.” Problem with that is that the American Association of Psychologists said that you cannot predict violence with certainty. When I mentioned that to a congressional staffer, he said that was my problem, do it anyway. So we were left with having to do that.
Pruett’s case was one of the low points of your career. What do you think it proved, if anything?
Shur: I have relocated people with backgrounds more violent than his that never committed another crime.
Earley: And if you look at the case of Arthur Kane [a 10-year WITSEC participant who, in 1987, walked into a Miami Merrill Lynch office, started shooting people and then shot himself] of all the people, you thought what, Gerry?
Shur: [That he was] the most docile human being I’d ever met.
Earley: You would have guessed he would have been the last to commit another crime.
Shur: He didn’t want to relocate, never was involved in violence of any kind in his life, was a very giving person. He was a lawyer who dealt in ambulance chasing, securities frauds and corrupt stuff like that, but not a violent guy. Loved his family. Followed the rules very well in the program. He was so anxious to go to work and took a job as a claims adjuster for the Social Security Administration in Florida.
So what do you think happened?
Shur: He flipped. The stock market crashed in ’87 and he had invested over a half a million dollars of his wife’s money, and he saw that he wiped her out. He thought he cost the family everything.
The personal story of the wife of that Mobster — you call her Witness X in the book — was really heartbreaking. How much care can you give to the family members?
Shur: They pay the highest price. The biggest thing they suffer from is not being able to go home. They can’t go back to a family affair or a wedding or a funeral. You hear your mother’s dying and you can’t go home. So, what we would do is sneak people into a hospital before the person dies. Once, after a death, we thought a former witness psychologically had to see the deceased. We couldn’t take him to the funeral home because it was run by racketeers, so we arranged for the body to be moved from that funeral home to another place.
Earley: [These stories] show how much of our identity is based on our past and our relationships. Everybody has this fantasy: Oh, won’t it be great, I could just disappear, get a new name and start all over. What you discover is that this is the worst thing any of these people ever had to do. Once your past is taken away from you, and you’re living a lie, it’s almost like you don’t exist.
Has anyone thought about giving more compensation to family members in any way?
Shur: If you start giving money, you begin to violate the federal statute that prohibits the purchase of testimony. You would not be solving the real problem. The real problem is that they’re cut off from their folks back home.
Earley: The only guy who really got away with a lot of [demands] — and this was with Mr. Shur’s protest — was Jimmy Fratianno.
Shur: I protested how much money we gave him.
Earley: Fratianno kept trying to go to people above Mr. Shur. He’s the one that got the breast implants for his wife. Of course, he was the biggest fish at the time that they’d ever caught.
Who are the toughest types of criminals to get to testify?
Shur: Members of organized crime — be it La Cosa Nostra or a Colombian narcotics organization or a motorcycle gang or a terrorist group — none of them want to testify. Nobody walks up to us and says, “You know, I’ve been doing all these bad things all my life, and I’ve decided to change my ways.” There has to be some motivation, something pushing them, that forces them to make a choice. Either you tell because of vengeance, or I tell because I’m about to be hurt or killed. But not: I tell because I’ve fallen in love with the American flag.
Then they have to be able to blend into these communities that you put them in. Even that story about Sal from Brooklyn — he stuck out in South Dakota with his stereotypical gold chains and chest hair. How are the communities chosen that they’re placed in?
Shur: You try to find somewhere they will be comfortable, and it has to be large enough to absorb them. The first few years we made a terrible mistake: We put everybody in Florida and California because they all said they wanted to go there. That was bad. You have to look at where the danger areas are. We ask: Where have you traveled? Where have you spent time? Where are your relatives living? All those places are excluded.
Earley: Donald “Bud” McPherson’s experience is interesting. He was one of the only marshals who wanted to have anything to do with these guys. So they all ended up going out to Orange County, Calif. And the reason is because back then they didn’t have cellphones and pagers, and Bud wanted them to be within an hour of his house. So he had 20 mobsters in this one area — that’s what led to the movie “My Blue Heaven.”
Can you give a sense of where you think the Mob would be today without the program?
Shur: They would be very strong and very influential in politics, in city councils, in police departments. They’d still be controlling illegal gambling, and they’d probably still control Las Vegas.
Earley: A good answer for that is to look at what happened in Italy. They weren’t able to protect people, and if you study the mob in Italy, you’ll see that it still had tremendous power and influence, and corrupted the whole country. The one prosecutor who tried to change it got blown up. I’m not an expert on the Italian Mafia, but I have seen studies that show just how much money is wasted on corruption. You wouldn’t want the United States to be facing the same kind of corruption problems that they do in Italy.
Gerry doesn’t like to be flippant, but I will. You could say that the Sopranos would be in the White House.
What kind of threats did you and your family face?
Shur: There was a time when my daughter answered the phone at home and someone said, “Have you thought about death? It’s about time you start.” One time, she was coming home from school and a car went by and she thinks that she was shot at, she heard a loud pop.
Once, I had one of the witnesses in my office. He was very disgruntled, certainly not a criminal intellectual, and he looked at the picture of my wife and looked at me and said, “Have you thought about how you’d feel if she suddenly turned up missing?” And so we had a talk about that. We discussed how he would feel when I asked thousands of FBI agents to investigate his family and his friends and his friends’ friends and made sure that they all told him that they were being investigated because of what he just said. Then I told him something that I told many people after: “You have just become my wife’s insurer. You should pray that she doesn’t trip, fall or scrape her hands.”
What finally caused you to enter the program?
Shur: I learned that a person from the Medellín cartel, which was then the major narcotics cartel, had told one of the agents that he’d been assigned the job of kidnapping either my wife or I to find out where a witness is relocated. What they didn’t know is that I always made sure — it was built into the system — that I would not know where witnesses were. We thought it best that I leave Washington. We went into hiding in a hotel. Marshals would meet me at night, follow me for a while and tell me it was clear, and I would drive around for an hour before I would head to where I was really going.
Did that alter your perspective on the program in any way?
Shur: It made me realize that it was every bit as uncomfortable as we were telling people. I had to go into my granddaughter’s graduation — we’re very family-oriented — but [my family] doesn’t know about the kidnapping threats. When we hid in the hotel, our phone from home was forwarded to the room, so when they called us, we picked up as usual. We had to tell them that I had to work and we’d be late. So we snuck in and snuck out, got on a cellphone and left a message on the machine about something we saw there, so she knew that we were there.
Father’s Day was a big deal, too. I told them I had to work but that the Department of Justice has this really wonderful courtyard. Why don’t you all come down to the courtyard and we’ll go and picnic? Of course, the Justice Department was guarded and we had Father’s Day.
Advancements in technology must make everything a bit more complicated, too.
Shur: The Internet makes it easier for people to do searches, but I have not heard of a single witness found on the Internet yet, except for those who want to be found on the Internet.
Earley: You laugh, but Henry Hill [of "Goodfellas" fame] does. He was in WITSEC, but like a lot of these guys he just couldn’t quite not want to be famous.
Over three decades, Alison Bechdel’s comics have grown increasingly intimate. Her alt-weekly strip, “Dykes to Watch Out For,” was as emotionally true as it was funny and shrewd, but as with other great political cartoons of the era, like “Bloom County” and “Doonesbury,” the travails of its cast — a gay-community ensemble whose lives Bechdel chronicled from the Reagan era through the first anxious decade of a new century — only hinted at the life of the artist herself.
Her own personality burst out more explicitly in 2006 with the appearance of “Fun Home,” a masterful graphic memoir about her relationship with her clever, exacting and very closeted father, who taught school and ran a funeral home simultaneously, and whose death under mysterious circumstances raised the possibility of suicide. Critics justly heaped acclaim on “Fun Home,” praising its intricate narrative architecture and honest, despairing voice. In reconstructing her path from girlhood to womanhood, from nervous young diarist to nervous young artist, Bechdel overturned many of her family’s myths, and a host of broader cultural ones.
Her new book, “Are You My Mother?,” is even more personal, restless and reflective, a wry, self-interrogating look at her relationship with her mother, and the ways that relationship has fed — and obstructed — Bechdel’s own work. Like Roland Barthes’ “Mourning Diary,” it’s a gorgeous meditation on the lack of a mother’s love, one that keeps shuddering over a catastrophe that has already occurred; but whereas Barthes’ notes came into being in the months following his mother’s funeral, Bechdel wrote and is publishing her book while her mother is still alive. “The secret subversive goal of my work,” she has said, “is to show that women, not just lesbians, are regular human beings.” I spoke with the author by phone earlier this month about that project, and about her book and the fraught relationship it documents. The following is an edited transcript of our conversation.
The Barnes & Noble Review: You wrote ”Fun Home” looking back on your relationship with your dad, but you were constantly talking to your mom while you wrote this book. And she was a somewhat grudging subject. Was this one harder?
Alison Bechdel: Yes, as I learned during the research for ”Are You My Mother?,” and also instinctively from my experience being a human, mothers are just more difficult than fathers. It’s a much more fraught and complex relationship for everyone whether you’re male or female because this is someone who you’re physically a part of. And so it became very confounding for me, trying to sort that out. The psychoanalyst who I write a lot about in the book, Winnicott, wrote that the mother must be dismantled whereas the father can be murdered. And I feel like somehow I murdered my dad, and that was really a walk in the park. That was so much easier than dismantling my mother.
BNR: You were talking to her all the time, transcribing your conversations with her, and you had all these letters and diaries, and really precise memories, and then all of your reading, of Winnicott and Virginia Woolf and ”The Drama of the Gifted Child.” It must have been a lot to wrangle.
AB: It was, especially the Winnicott stuff. I kind of had to give myself a tutorial on psychoanalysis, which really took me a couple of years — you know, learning that language and getting a handle on it, just a slim grasp of the body of Winnicott’s ideas. That was a big project, but a kind of enjoyable procrastination too, because I couldn’t quite face what I was going to have to do.
BNR: But Winnicott ends up being, in a way, a character in the book.
AB: That was a real breakthrough for me, the moment that happened. When I began, I guess I realized it could be possible to introduce Winnicott as a character but I felt very firmly that I wasn’t going to do that, that somehow it was not in the scope of what I was doing. But then he somehow sort of insisted. That was soon after I ruled out the first name of the book and started over. Virginia Woolf and Donald Winnicott appeared in my mind crossing paths one day in London and that started me out in a new direction.
BNR: I love the way their experiences live alongside and reflect yours — your relationship with your mom, your romantic relationships, your psychoanalysis.
AB: I don’t know how this book is going to go over. I don’t know how many people are interested in psychoanalysis. I feel like most people are impatient with it.
BNR: Did you happen to see Maria Bustillos’ piece for “The Awl” about going to David Foster Wallace’s archives at the Ransom Center and looking through his self-help books?
AB: Oh God, no. I’m looking it up now. The first page I Googled has an image of ”The Drama of the Gifted Child” on it.
BNR: He wrote notes in it about his relationship with his mom, and that piece cycled around and around the Internet. ”The Drama of the Gifted Child” has a huge readership among people who are interested in literature and ideas.
AB: The interesting thing about that book is, it’s really intended for other analysts. It’s not meant for a lay audience, really. I mean it wasn’t directed toward that audience, though that’s the audience it found. But I just want to say, I’m relieved I didn’t see that. I feel like it would’ve distracted me from what I was doing.
BNR: One thing you highlight beautifully in ”Are You My Mother?” is that writers have the same problem analysts do: They compulsively analyze people. Would you say that your mom shares that tendency?
AB: Yeah, I would say she has a really keen kind of psychological insight into other people and their motivations.
BNR: Is it hard to talk about this, knowing that she might read the interviews?
AB: You know, I can’t even think about that. Whenever I do interviews I just have to assume that she’s not going to see them. She really is not interested to that extent, and I’m pretty sure she doesn’t seek stuff out online. So I think I’m just going to tell myself that she’s not going to see this interview.
BNR: OK, then, gloves off! One thing that makes her such a fascinating character is that you can’t tell — I can’t tell — whether she’s being intentionally undermining or just applying the same critical lens to your work that she uses to judge the rest of the world.
AB: I think it’s the latter, but I always have to deal with the former. You know, when she makes these comments about other writers or other cartoonists and seems to be comparing me to them, my first feeling is always that I’m coming up short and she’s criticizing me, trying to humiliate me. But I don’t think she’s really trying to do that.
BNR: That tension absolutely comes across. You transmit it so well, I found myself squirming. But I came to like her more and more as the book went along. Especially when you ask her to tell you the first thing she can think of that she learned from her mother, and she says she learned that boys are more important than girls.
AB: That was a really pivotal moment. My first therapist told me to do that, thinking it would yield some useful information, and it did. That was like the key to my childhood. I also want to say, I genuinely like my mother in a way that I don’t think a lot of my friends do. They love their mothers, they’re close to their mothers, but I don’t know if they genuinely enjoy their mothers’ company in the way that I do. Sometimes she drives me crazy, but she can also seem completely delightful. I can have serious conversations about writing with my mother, which I think is kind of amazing. I’m also still scared of her, so that was the biggest thing I had to grapple with in the book and don’t know if I succeeded. I don’t know if I really took her on in a way that if I were completely honest I would have. Because I’m still afraid of her.
BNR: She is formidable. But then at times she would play with you and make stories with you.
AB: One of my earliest, most powerful memories of my mother is playing this game where I would be a crippled child like the kids I would see at the orthopedic wing of the hospital when I would go to get my fallen arches checked up on. I was just fascinated with these children, with their external signs of disability, their crutches and braces and big shoes. There was something about that that I needed to reenact, and my mother entered into that imaginary space so willingly with me and in such an encouraging way. Even though I knew there was something weird about having this fantasy about disabled children, she didn’t censor it. She encouraged me to go with it, and I feel like she probably did that with me in lots of imaginary games as a kid but for some reason this is the one that I remember the most vividly. And I speculate in the book that it’s because it was a fantasy that she shared to a certain extent as well.
BNR: And when your OCD was making it really difficult to keep the diary, your mom would write down your entries. I remember that from ”Fun Home,” too, and both times it gave me chills. The devotion implicit in it.
AB: Oh my God, that was another pivotal moment. She would sit there and write down everything I said. It was amazing. It also becomes weirdly this template for my relationship later with therapists, other women who would sit there and take down notes on what I was saying.
BNR: Yes! What’s it like to go back and look at those journals now? Those diaries where she wrote the entries for you?
AB: It’s really powerful. I’m at the University of Chicago right now, teaching a class. I moved out here for a couple months, and part of what I’m doing is putting up an exhibit of my work in a space on campus. One of the things that I wanted to show was the way I used all these different archival references in my work.
And so I took a section from ”Fun Home,” a section where my mother starts writing in my diary near the end of Chapter 5. There’s this accident and these people are killed, one of them’s a young boy, and they’re all at our family funeral home, all the bodies. On the wall, along with the printed pages from the book, I show the topographical map of my hometown, the big coloring book page from the ”Wind in the Willows” coloring book when I was a kid. And also I scanned my childhood diary, first the spread of the week before this terrible accident when my OCD was reaching a crescendo and there’s just this childish handwriting with these big squiggles and blocks all over it, and the following week — the next thread — is my mother’s tidy handwriting. It’s still my language but her writing. I think it’s such a visual and striking image of this moment of transmission or connection with her. It’s still, you know, really arm’s length. It’s this intellectual exercise. That’s as much as I got, and that’s what I will take.
BNR: She was giving the gift she knew how to give you. It’s a striking counterpoint to her early days as a mother when she’s trying to breastfeed you and can’t, and the doctor tells her she’s not a good cow, which is (laughing) just awful.
AB (laughing): I know, he really said that.
BNR: But then the journals, the storytelling, was just something she could so naturally share with you.
AB: But what she did is a double-edged sword. Yes, she was teaching me to write, but this cathexis, for lack of a better word, around the diary entries, I feel like that’s what made me want to write memoir. That’s what makes nonfiction so vital for me. That she taught me to write about my particular life, but she doesn’t like that I do that. She really wishes that I were a fiction writer.
BNR: Right, which is…
AB: Like you.
BNR: Well, I’ve written plenty of nonfiction stuff about my mother. A lot of it seems, now that I’m older, not very generous. I was filled with rage toward her when I was younger, and now I feel much more love and empathy. Your work is vastly more mature and more nuanced.
AB: I wonder how much the empathy you’re feeling now is a result of the fact that you wrote about her, you know? Would you be able to feel that if you hadn’t done that writing?
BNR: That’s a good question. Do you think writing ”Fun Home ”and ”Are You My Mother? ”helped you move beyond and change some of your own feelings?
AB: I totally do. That’s why I do it, and it feels so fraught to talk about this because writing is not supposed to be therapeutic. A sort of analogy has occurred to me. People ask me, was writing “Fun Home” therapeutic? And I feel like, yes it was, but that’s kind of like asking somebody if swimming the English Channel was a good workout for them. That’s not why they did it — “of course “it was a good workout. Both of these books have entailed transformative processes. You can’t engineer or will yourself to undergo a transformation, but that’s what both of these books have involved. I kind of set out on a journey, and I know that that’s what I have to do, and it’s sort of a high-wire act in that respect. Especially with this book about my mother, when I had a book deal for it, I couldn’t really promise that I was going to figure this out in three years or whatever my initial contract was for. And in fact I didn’t; it took me a lot longer.
BNR: How long did it take?
AB: Six years, almost as long as ”Fun Home.” “Fun Home” was a seven-year project, but I was also writing my comic strip for that time, and with ”Are You My Mother?,” for two years of that I was writing the comic strip, and then for the next four years all I was doing was writing this book. It’s kind of crazy.
BNR: But the work shows. And your process is so painstaking. You’ll take photographs of yourself in various positions and then translate them into drawings.
AB: Yeah. That’s really crazy, I do that for every figure in the book.
BNR: One of your therapists advanced this theory, and it dovetails with some of Winnicott’s ideas and ”The Drama of the Gifted Child,” that in encouraging your diary to the extent she did, your mother was teaching you to be the repository of all of the emotions that your family couldn’t process. And so in addition to predisposing you to the memoir form by helping you write your diary, your mom was also — if that’s true — making it fraught for you.
AB: Yes. Very much. Interestingly, my father too, I feel, was complicit in the diary thing, because he’s the one who physically started me off writing in a diary. My very first entry, he wrote the first sentence or began the first sentence, “Dad is reading ‘The Trumpet of the Swan.’” Both of my parents sort of ceremonially made me the, I don’t know, repository for all of this emotional anguish.
BNR: They really liked the idea of their daughter taking on that role. I guess it’s typical to give a girl a diary — to hope that she’ll write secrets in it and use the little key that comes with it.
AB: You know, that’s so interesting. I didn’t address at all the archetypically feminine role that the diaries have, but that’s so much a part of the story too. Why is that? We don’t give boys diaries.
BNR: I laughed out loud when your mom says, after reading an early draft of the book, “You must have a pretty good memory.”
AB: Yeah, I don’t quite know how to take that.
BNR: But then she also seems pleased. She says that it coheres and there are clear themes, and it’s a meta book, which goes back to what you were saying about being able to talk with your mother about stories and about literature at a really high level.
AB: I feel like she’s at a higher level than I am. She thought of it as a meta book; I hadn’t even been thinking of it in that way. So you know, she’s actually much more well-read than I am, much more up on what’s happening in literature at this moment.
BNR: Well, as someone who spends a lot of time reading opinions about books online, I’m not really sure for a writer that that’s a good thing.
AB: In my mother’s case I wonder too if she’s so — she’s following the state of criticism so closely that she can’t write because she feels so scrutinized.
BNR: To have the level of critical acumen that she has and to have the very precise ideas that she seems to have about what stories should be and the best way to tell them — for many people, that’s death to more creative kinds of writing.
AB: As I worked on this project about her, my image of who she could have been or what she could have been kept morphing. At first I thought, oh, my mother was a frustrated poet. Then I saw more of her frustrated actress part, and in the end I feel like it’s really her frustrated critic part that is maybe the most… maybe that’s who she really would have been. Like when she says she wishes she could’ve been Helen Vendler.
BNR: And how your dad had her read books for him and help him write his papers.
AB: She should’ve been an academic, I think. She did teach high school English, but I think she could’ve gotten a PhD and been a really kick-ass poetry professor.
BNR: You write early in ”Are You My Mother?”: ”My foremost difficulty is the extent to which I have internalized my mother’s critical faculties.” Apart from all your second-guessing of your writing itself, I’ve noticed that you’re really hard on yourself for using a font based on your handwriting to letter your frames.
AB: I do feel guilty about it, like it’s somehow cheating to use a digital font, and to not actually hand-letter my work. But at the same time, I have these lengthy passages of quotations from Winnicott or from Virginia Woolf that I have obsessively hand-lettered.
BNR: So interesting: the parts that aren’t your language.
AB: Yeah. In fact those things are treated as drawings in the book, even though they’re text. I frame them as a drawing and often overlay them with my digital narration. It’s almost like I’m giving those words more attention than my own words, but not really.
BNR: I’m so interested in — and ignorant of — the mechanics of putting together graphic novels. Were all of the quotes from other writers treated as drawings, or the longer ones?
AB: Pretty much all of them. I mean, there are very short things that are just half a sentence that I might have quoted in my own narration, but most of them are actually copied from the original text where I read them. Part of it was trying to replicate my own experience as a reader. Well, not replicate but transmit. To get people to read kind of through my eyes. In my early drafts the quotations went on a lot longer. My editor really pushed me to cut them down.
BNR: How was that, working with an editor and showing her the book in stages?
AB: I had an amazing connection with my editor about this book. She’s the same editor I had for ”Fun Home,” which seems like a great gift in this era, to have that kind of continuity with a publisher. Let’s go back to the question of how I actually do the book. I do write first, but my writing is very drawing-based. I actually write in a drawing application, in Adobe Illustrator. So I’m not just writing in a word processing program, I’m creating these panels on the page and I create little text boxes for the narration or dialogue and I’m able to move that stuff all around. I’m thinking about the page as a two-dimensional field as I write, which feels to me like a kind of drawing even though I’m not drawing with a pencil or not drawing much. I will do occasional sketches. So that takes a really, really long time and that’s how I get the whole story mapped out. If you saw the pages at that point, it would be just blank boxes with the text and the dialogue, with the narration and the dialogue and maybe a few images dragged in here and there.
BNR: Is that what your mom had seen when she said that she couldn’t imagine how you were going to draw it all?
AB: Yeah. It was hard for her to read that, and it’s hard for anyone to. It doesn’t make sense unless you’re really comics literate, and my editor is somehow able to see how that stuff is working without the pictures, and then proceed to edit me the way she would edit any book. I’ve never really talked with other cartoonists about how they work with their editors. It’s hard for me to imagine Chris Ware or Joe Sacco being edited at all. I feel like drawing is more primary in their work somehow. Maybe not. I don’t know if they work with editors, but I just somehow imagine that they don’t, but who knows.
BNR: Your work feels more literary to me than a lot of graphic novelists’.
AB: Well, you know… I’m sorry to use this word in this way, but I think I probably do privilege the writing more than the drawing. I mean the drawing I do work very hard at, but it’s a little more in service of the writing than vice versa, and I think that mix varies a lot for different cartoonists.
BNR: Your visuals are wonderful, but I always feel very connected to the internality of your characters.
AB: You know what, Maud? I feel like cartooning for me has been like a way to be a crypto-writer. I couldn’t ever say I wanted to be a writer because my mother was a writer, and even now I’ve had to find this alternative way of expressing myself as a writer. I don’t want to diminish the drawing. I think it’s integral to what I do. But I’m kind of a secret writer.
BNR: Not so secret really, I hate to tell you. I was reading another interview in which you said that each of your parents had carved out and claimed huge portions of the artistic sphere. Your dad was so visual arts driven, and your mom was a writer and an actor, so you felt like cartooning was this little sliver of creative self-expression that neither of them had claimed.
AB: Yeah.
BNR: When I read about your font, I had the image of you sitting there trying to decide which –
AB: Actually, I basically did that. This guy had me write five or six versions of each letter, and then he kind of averaged them out.
BNR: Does it help with the niggly copyediting problems — “its/it’s” and whatnot — that pedants like me notice in a lot of graphic novels?
AB: Yeah, it enables me to make corrections of typos or to make last-minute editing changes in a way that would be just way too onerous to do by hand. You’d have to go in and manually erase and re-draw the “it’s” and take the apostrophe out and move the space. It would take you forever; it’s insane. So I feel like I’m able to write more carefully because I’m using a digital font. A lot of cartoonists, their stuff is filled with typos. It’s part of the charm, but I feel like my kind of writing I can’t do that. I can’t live with that.
BNR: Your work is so precise and well-considered that I would imagine you’re constantly revising. Do you ever find yourself having to choose a word that will fit in the spot?
AB: Oh yeah, very much. I’m very wordy for a cartoonist. I’m always struggling against that, because the more space your words take up the less room you have for pictures. So it’s always this precarious balancing act. I will often use a word that’s shorter than the word I really want just so I can fit it into three lines instead of going to four. I can’t give you an example right now, but I do that constantly. Editing decisions based on that really minute kind of space.
BNR: So as you’re creating the panels, as you’re drawing, do you ever find yourself shortening things so that you’ll have more room to include some other object in the panel?
AB: Well, just as a general principle, I try to keep the words at an absolute minimum. What’s interesting, as I continue with the drawing process, is that I often find spots where the words become kind of vestigial because I’m conveying something in the picture that makes them redundant. I can delete the words and get these powerful moments in the story that way. There was that one section, when I’m talking about my parents and their courtship and how my mother would like go to my father’s grad school classes with him occasionally. I had a line there saying explicitly “I think my mother should have gone to grad school” or something like that. And it became very clear as I was illustrating this that that my opinion was much more powerful as an implied thing, and so I took that line out and then it came to life. Sometimes the words overdetermine it and kill the energy of the writing. I guess that’s true of any type of writing, you hope to get to the phase when you can just delete stuff and get rid of all that baggage. But in my case, a lot of the time, it’s things I’ve already done in the drawing that enable me to get rid of words.
BNR: Your mom wished you’d written ”Fun Home” as fiction, but in the end she capitulated. She read the draft and said some perceptive things about it –
AB: I feel like she hasn’t really capitulated. She has this really amazingly schizoid response to what I’m doing. On the one hand, she’s very excited about the book actually coming out. She’s sort of anxious that it do well as a book, but just like with ”Fun Home” she doesn’t want to talk about the content of the book. And she’s really — beyond those few things that you just said, like that she observed that it coheres and it’s a meta book, she really hasn’t said much to me about the substance of the book. Has said nothing to me.
BNR: Were you conscious when writing of trying to communicate something to her about your relationship, or did you try to put her reaction out of your mind?
AB: I feel like this book is at its core just a simple and quite pathetic effort to get my mother to hear me tell her that I love her. I could not possibly do that in person, I mean I’ve tried that. I’ve done that. It goes OK, but it’s never what I want. And even having done this, I don’t… you know, I’m still waiting for some kind of response from her that I’m sure I will never get. She really feels like the book is — she sees the hostility; she doesn’t see the love. And that is distressing to me.
BNR: It’s so clearly drenched in love and in longing for that kind of response from her. But part of the tragedy of the book is that she doesn’t feel like — well, like the kind of character who’s going to be able to give that sort of response.
AB: Something that really captures her sort of split response to the book is that I got a pre-pub review that talked about my “substantive yet essentially distant” relationship with my mother, and I showed her that review and she was really psyched about it. She thought it was good. It was a starred review, and she was happy about that. She did not seem the least bit fazed to hear our relationship described as “substantive yet essentially distant.” I think she would agree that’s accurate.
BNR: Have you ever heard your mother describe your relationship?
AB: No. No, I haven’t. I have no idea what she would say. I know that she talks about me to other people, like in this kind of bragging way. I know that she’s proud of me and takes some vicarious pleasure in my successes, but she doesn’t say that to me. I only gather that she says that to other people.
BNR: So other people will tell you, “Your mom is so proud of you. She told me that your new book got a starred review in Kirkus?
AB: No, actually, I feel like I overhear her at her house. If I’m visiting, I can hear her saying to her best friend on the phone or to someone else on the phone. That’s how I know she does that. It’s like she doesn’t care if I’m overhearing her or not, I’m not really part of the – she’s not factoring me in, I don’t think.
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In essay collections like “The Disappointment Artist” and last year’s acclaimed “The Ecstasy of Influence,” best-selling novelist Jonathan Lethem brought his sharp critical lens and personal passion to bear on Marvel Comics, Roberto Bolaño, Bob Dylan and the John Carpenter movie “They Live.” Add to that diverse list of cultural artifacts the Talking Heads album “Fear of Music,” the subject of Lethem’s latest book, and published as part of Continuum’s 33 1/3 series of music writing.
The collision of Lethem and Talking Heads makes perfect sense. Both can’t escape being identified with New York – or, in Lethem’s case, Brooklyn – and despite working in disparate modes, each brings the formalism and precision of the high arts to popular forms. Lethem fans already know of his love of the band – composed of David Byrne (vocals and guitar), Tina Weymouth (bass), Chris Frantz (drums) and Jerry Harrison (keyboards, guitar) – from his essay “The Beards.” There, he connected his love of “Fear of Music” to the aftermath of his mother’s death from a brain tumor. “I have an obvious predisposition to handling the material of 1978 and ’79 with an exaggerated, personal intensity,” he told me. We spoke via Skype, Lethem from his office at Pomona College where he is the Roy E. Disney Professor in Creative Writing.
What drew you to Talking Heads’ music as a youth?
In 1978 I launched myself out of a very difficult Brooklyn public school and got into the High School of Music and Art, in Manhattan. It was like crossing the threshold. Suddenly I was hanging out in Harlem, trying to figure out who the cool kids were and how I could become one of them, or whether I somehow already qualified. Everyone had their band; it was pretty much like a menu: You could be into the Ramones or Cheap Trick or the Dictators. U.K. punk was this attractive signal coming in, but we had a special affinity for the New York bands. I had a friend that semester who was into Television — he was a little hipper than I was.
I was just at the right conjugation of nerdy, alienated and hyper-alert that I identified instantly with Talking Heads. They sang songs about books! I got it immediately.
In the book you call “Fear of Music” a paranoid album, and other works of art you’ve written about – some Stanley Kubrick films, and Philip K. Dick’s novels, for instance – have this bent as well. Are you a paranoid person?
Paranoia is closely related to a subject that’s right at the heart of the album: fear. Paranoia is an intellectual shading on a somatic experience, a physical reality that is fear. I experienced a lot of fear — not only my mother’s death, but I lived through a rather desperate chapter of New York’s urban history —and it shaped me. Paranoia is a kind of utilization of fear, like “Let’s pick this fear up and shine it around like a flashlight and see what I can see with it.” As it invests itself in certain kinds of artworks, like in Philip K. Dick’s novels, paranoia tends to be a mode of inquiry and exploration — a philosophical mode, really. In that sense, it was attractive to me, because it was a lot less passive than just lying there and trembling.
But I try to disentwine my inclination for conspiracy and paranoia in artwork from its general lack of not only usefulness but interest in everyday life, where it’s actually a way of shutting possibilities down.
Do you have a favorite song on “Fear of Music”? From your description of “Heaven” – “If heaven’s impossible to know, ‘Heaven’s’ hard to recollect” – that seems to be your least favorite.
I received, in a very specific way, skepticism about “Heaven.” I have a friend, John Hilgart, who was a sounding board while I worked on this book. Hilgart said, quite passingly, “I always felt on Side 2, after ‘Air,’ there’s a three-song lull. I like ‘Heaven’ in principle, but to listen to it is kind of boring.” And then he felt, and I think this would be a much more common remark, that “Animals” and “Electric Guitar” are buried on Side 2 because they’re less inspired melodically or fully realized, and bear less relistening.
I had always held the whole album on this pedestal, where, in a way, it was all exactly as good as itself. I saw it as fractal, “This album is perfect, therefore everything on it is perfect.” Besides, I had always taken “Heaven” as a sacred object — everyone knows this is one of the masterpiece songs. But when Hilgart said that it was like – click! – “Heaven” is one of those things that I listen to and tell myself I’m loving it, but it’s actually boring. I started focusing on the idea of tedium, because the song’s self-referential; it wants to be boring.
In fact, I like “Heaven” a lot. The only song I’m uncomfortable with is “Electric Guitar.” The song is crippled by its disorganized quality, and it doesn’t seem as pure conceptually, because how do you put an electric guitar up there with air, heaven, animals, mind? It doesn’t belong on that stage. Also, it’s been played live barely ever. It’s a sitting duck if you need there to be a worst song on the album, though, really, I don’t know if “Fear of Music” needs to have one.
I do know that my favorites are the two side closers. I wouldn’t want to have to choose between “Drugs” and “Memories Can’t Wait.” Those became the most rewarding songs to write about; they just got richer and richer for me. I actually made myself like them even more, which I didn’t think was possible. Of course, “Life During Wartime” is pretty good too. [laughs]
Did you find yourself liking the album more in general as a result of writing about it?
It was like having any subject before you when you’re writing a book — your own characters, your childhood, some stupid idea you made up about Tourette’s syndrome, whatever it might be that you’ve committed years of your life to — you love it and hate it a lot along the way. There were days when I felt utterly under its hobnailed boot, and there were days when I did not want to listen to “Fear of Music” again. I wrote through those feelings, of course, as you do with your contempt for all the different assignments life has given you, and I was enraptured by the end.
What’s weird is that I put it on for pleasure now. Your iTunes counts listenings, and my entire top 25 most-listened-to tracks on iTunes is all “Fear of Music” and different live versions of the songs. It was ceaseless, to the point where my wife would force me to switch to the headphones.
How did you start?
I rarely delay — and certainly proportionate to how many pages the piece was, I don’t think I’ve ever delayed starting a project as long. There are novels that I had in mind for three or four years, or even more than that before I began writing them, but those were very long novels. I took three years circling around this.
I kick-started myself in a really specific way. I accepted an invitation to the Experience Music Project Conference to be on a panel about urbanism. I said I would talk about Talking Heads’ relationship to urbanism and the evolution of their vanity as urban dwellers, starting with the “More Songs About Buildings and Food” song “Big Country,” which goes “I wouldn’t live there if you paid me,” to “Fear of Music’s” “Cities,” “I’m finding a city I’m going to check out,” and ending with “True Stories’” “People Like Us,” where they’re pretending to be hicks from Texas. I saw this as a topic I could make an interesting presentation on, but of course I was thinking, I’ll start writing about “Cities” and then I’ll have myself on the page about “Fear of Music.”
There are small traces of that presentation in the chapter on “Cities” in the book. A lot of it had to get thrown out, but at least it got me thinking about how to make something actually occur. I knew that I would write about each song directly and that I wanted to intersperse those chapters with provocative side questions about the album as a whole — I had that structure sitting there. I wrote about the commercial, the radio spot advertising “Fear of Music,” and then I wrote about the album jacket, and then I started writing about “I Zimbra.” Except that I had this weird chunk of thinking about “Cities,” which I incorporated, I wrote the book straight through as it reads.
Were there critical works or other texts that influenced your approach?
I was very conscious of the 33 1/3 books. I’ve been an eager customer, so I was thinking of some of the ones I loved best, like Franklin Bruno’s “Armed Forces,” Douglas Wolk’s James Brown book, “Live at the Apollo,” and Carl Wilson’s book on Celine Dion, “Let’s Talk About Love.” Not that I was going to ape their approaches, which are quite divergent anyway, but I write to enter into a conversation that books on shelves are having. I wanted to be a really exciting member of the 33 1/3 team, I wanted to come in with something that only I could do, but that also was recognizably a contribution to this recent but very interesting tradition.
In terms of critical writing, I followed less a specific example and more the general idea of close reading. I had written a book on the John Carpenter movie “They Live,” where I had just stared at the movie and free-associated. I wanted to do that but more so. “They Live” had a relatively high number of outside comparative texts brought in — other films, artworks and some theoretical things. With “Fear of Music” I thought, let me bring in fewer, and let me sometimes bring in none at all, let me just be with the sound of the songs and say what I’m hearing.
You write that it’s never unimportant asking what was going on in the artist’s life at the moment of creation. Let me turn that on you. Why write this book now?
How can I reconstruct or account for such a sprawling intention? I began fantasizing that I might do a 33 1/3 book before I had even agreed to do one, and “Fear of Music” was always the record that I knew I would write about. Then three years elapsed between agreeing to do it and actually starting.
I have been amazed to find myself doing so much critical and cultural writing, a lot of it being a weird mix of criticism and memoir, or covert memoir pieces pretending to be critical pieces. There’s a long evolution for me, thinking I would write fiction that was all going to be invented, and that I like to read criticism but I would never want to write it, then having it invest in the fiction itself. “Fortress of Solitude” is where that really starts, but “Chronic City” extends it. I incorporated a lot of critical impulses, cultural commentary — even things like liner notes crept into the voice of the book.
Having come into this hyper-developed critical voice without ever meaning to, I wanted to both do it service and quarantine it by writing this book. Like, you go over here and write a whole book about “Fear of Music,” then shut up. This and the “They Live” book would be both a summit and a farewell, which has to do with an intention for what I want to have happen in my fiction next, which is that I want to stop incorporating the critical voice into it in the same way.
Simultaneously, I think I’m also done with the tokens of my 14- or 15-year-old self. I can’t really imagine anything after this climax of “Fear of Music.” It’s like I finally came out of hiding, like once you show yourself you can slam the door, because the internal paparazzi are satisfied, they got their shot.
In the liner notes of “Sand in the Vaseline,” Jerry Harrison said, “There is a shared sensibility [with Talking Heads fans] that would make friendships immediate.” What’s that sensibility?
They’re pretty bookish. One of the things I thought interesting was how underwritten the songs are. They’re not wordy, really, but the sensibility is so fundamentally literary. Usually people think about Leonard Cohen or Bob Dylan or somebody recent like Craig Finn, who have these cascades of descriptions and evocations. Byrne never did that and it doesn’t seem like there was ever a phase in his songwriting career where he was even thinking to do it. But in another way I think Talking Heads are a very literary band in their fundamental stance, their ambivalence and sense of inquiry. I think even when he’s switched to nonsense lyrics there’s a spirit of inquiry that pervades all of Byrne’s best work, and “Fear of Music” is dominated by it.
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Kelle Hampton, the author of the eye-opening new memoir “Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected,” left for the hospital to give birth to her second child with “everything just — perfect,” packing not only the birth music, the blankets she’d made herself, the baby’s coming-home outfit, a special nightgown and a crown for the baby’s big sister, but also hand-designed, beribboned favors to pass out to visitors. Yet the moment her newborn daughter, Nella, was placed in her arms, Hampton’s concept of perfection altered in an instant: Though ultrasounds had signaled nothing unusual, Nella was born with Down syndrome.
Hampton writes with bracing, brave honesty about her initial response to Nella’s condition — “I think I cried for seven hours straight. It was gut-wrenching pain” — and her struggle to find hope, joy and an expanse of possibilities in what first seemed to bring only sadness. As on her blog, Enjoying the Small Things, the journey Hampton records in “Bloom” becomes a call — and not only to parents — to rethink our concepts of perfection, discover our capacities for resilience, appreciate the family and friends on whom we depend and, yes, find beauty where we may not have noticed it.
We asked Hampton, via email, about “Bloom” and the experiences and impulses that inspired it. It may be typical of the author that she immediately turned the task of tackling our questions into an event worthy of celebration, writing, “I’ll put some good music on tonight, light a candle, grab a beer, and completely enjoy the process.”
The Barnes & Noble Review: One remarkable aspect of your writing is your knack for tapping into emotions, both your own and your readers’. Has motherhood — and particularly Nella’s birth — made you more connected to your emotions?
Kelle Hampton: I feel emotions very intensely. Expressing them is another story. I think we’re all conditioned to mask certain emotions because we think they won’t be accepted or they’re “too much.” Motherhood definitely compelled me to express emotions more freely. The depth of love, the fear of losing, the need to protect, the unearthly joy — it was too much for me to contain. That’s why I started writing more. And writing something I was thinking seemed more acceptable than saying it out loud. Then with Nella’s birth, there were these contrasting emotions that were so difficult to deal with — grief, fear, sadness, shame. But once I expressed them through writing and realized other women related to them, it gave me the freedom to express myself in a way I had never done before.
BNR: ”Bloom,” like your blog, uses photos and text to tell your story. Why did you choose to combine both elements?
KH: The book is a testament to my journey that first year, and writing and photography played equal parts in my healing and perspective shift. Because the book deals with Down syndrome, a condition that has many negative stereotypes, the photos are a powerful way to showcase the beauty of these children and the beauty Nella brought to our family.
BNR: Early in “Bloom” you mention a book you read shortly before Nella’s birth, Donald Miller’s “A Million Miles in a Thousand Years,” which spoke to you of “the power of challenges — how living a life of comfort does nothing to make us grow, and how hard times shape us.” But you also say you couldn’t fully grasp Miller’s message until you went through your own challenges. Can we learn life lessons from books or only from our own experiences?
KH: I’ve thought about this question a lot, especially from a parent’s perspective, because we make efforts to keep our children from pain and to give them happiness. No one wishes heartache for their child, and yet I know a lot of my happiness and contentment today comes from challenging experiences and sadness in my past. I think we can learn a lot from others’ experiences, and books give us an opportunity to do that. But life without any pain is unrealistic, and the great thing about reading books and learning from others is that when we do go through hard things, we’re more equipped to handle them and don’t feel quite so alone.
BNR: I initially assumed that, before Nella’s birth, you’d led a life without much difficulty. But then you discussed challenges you faced during childhood, in particular the breakup of your parents’ marriage when your father, a preacher, came out as gay. Did those childhood challenges help prepare you for those you’ve faced as a mother?
KH: My siblings and I talk about this a lot — the fact that we are so grateful for our past, even though it has a lot of pain, because it made us tough and definitely more compassionate. Once I started writing those chapters from my past, it really hit me how much those painful memories created a foundation for later challenges in my life. Does that mean someone who had a dreamy, heartache-free childhood is at a disadvantage for handling hard times as an adult? Not necessarily.
It’s important to me, as a mother, not to shield my children from life’s more disheartening realities but to bring awareness to them in a way that gives my children both a sense of gratitude for what they have and the motivation to bring positive change to their world. I want my girls to know that life isn’t going to be without pain, but I also want to equip them with love and confidence and a perspective that allows them to face these challenges when they come.
BNR: You learned fairly early in life to embrace difference. But still you struggled at first to embrace the ways Nella was different from the daughter you had envisioned. How has your sense of “perfection” changed since you had Nella?
KH: I’ve definitely shifted my views of perfection away from image and more to inner happiness, and that shift has taken away so much pressure and allowed me the freedom to really be myself. That, in itself, is happiness.
BNR: After Nella’s birth, your close circle of girlfriends — your “Net,” as you call them — stayed with you, giving you incredible support. What do you think is the secret to having such close female friends?
KH: I think women’s friendships get a bad rap in the media. They’re portrayed as catty, jealous and unsupportive. That saddens me because I know how amazing it is to be part of a group of women where you find love and support. I think women have high expectations for each other, and sometimes we are inclined to run or drop a friendship at the first sign of drama. I embrace my friendships with the understanding that because we are all women with fiery personalities, big dreams, and a hell of a lot of passion, some drama is inevitable.
You have to approach it with compassion and forgive mistakes, because we all make them. Of course, yes, you also need to make choices to surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you, who challenge you, who bring good energy. Those who don’t aren’t worth exhausting efforts.
Secondly, if you want close relationships with friends, you have to be vulnerable. I know how much it means to me when a friend admires me enough to call, crying, asking for help or trusting me with an intimate conversation. Likewise, I want to do the same and reach out to my friends, revealing my own vulnerabilities. My friends are great for shopping, laughing, or going out for drinks, but the best, most beautiful moments I’ve experienced with them are far more serious. And when you experience heartache with a friend at your side, it is bonding in a way that can’t be forgotten.
BNR: Do you think women can support each other in ways that men (even husbands) cannot in tough times, and particularly those involving parenting?
KH: As much I support equal rights for men and women, there are certain gifts women possess that men don’t naturally have and vice versa. Even though Nella is [Hampton's husband] Brett’s child and he, of course, was the only one who could sympathize with that personal parental loss of receiving her diagnosis, there was something so comforting that came from my friends — women who understood, in a way Brett couldn’t, the emotional aspect of the end of a pregnancy, a mother’s expectations, the ideal birth experience.
BNR: You write that you knew immediately, before anyone told you, that Nella had Down syndrome and worry that you didn’t show her enough love at that moment. We all sometimes feel a disconnect between the mother we want to be and the mother we fear we are in a particular moment. Should we even have a concept of what makes the “perfect” mother? Does that give us something to strive for, or give us only impossible standards we’ll never measure up to?
KH: I think we all have this imaginary version of the perfect mother we want to be. There is a quote I love about the fact that there is no way to be a perfect mother, but there are a million ways to be a good one. I try to focus on that, to know that when I try my best, acknowledge mistakes, follow my instincts, and remind myself of what’s most important, that is perfect parenting.
BNR: I wonder, too, about the dangers of our expectations for our kids. If we have a preconceived notion of who they should be, we may fail to appreciate them as they are. That’s a lesson you say you’ve learned. Is it something you feel is important for all mothers to learn?
KH: Yes! I’m learning it with Lainey [Hampton's elder daughter] just as much as with Nella. I’ve been challenging myself not to push Lainey to be a leader all the time. I have a preconceived notion that kids need to be leaders, not followers, and my husband recently reminded me that we do not need to tell our children to be leaders; we need to tell them to be themselves. It makes us all happier — to sit back, to lead by example, to accept what we are given, and to love our children no matter what path they choose to take in life.
BNR: Motherhood can be a touchy topic. Some of the emotions and responses you talk about in the book are bound to incite strong responses — mostly positive, but perhaps also negative. Were you afraid, writing about such personal topics, that you might be misunderstood and attacked?
KH: When I first published Nella’s birth story [on her blog], I discovered right away that being honest about touchy things is not always well received. It was good for me to read responses, even those “Oh my God, what kind of mother would say they want to run away!?” remarks. It initiated a personal process for me of challenging myself to write what’s true — in a respectful way, of course — and not to change my writing to cater to other people.
BNR: Did you ever find yourself pulling back? Or did you just write through those concerns?
KH: There were parts that I went to write and stopped to ponder the effects first. And, most always, I proceeded, hoping that people will understand this is my journey. Memoirs are personal, and not everyone is going to shake their head “yes” to every line, and that’s OK. The other side is that it has been incredibly fulfilling to read e-mails from women who have said, “Thank you for saying that. I felt it too, but didn’t want to say it, and you make me feel normal for admitting it.”
BNR: Do you worry about how your kids will respond to what you write when they’re old enough to read and understand it?
KH: What I wouldn’t do to have my own mother’s thoughts and photos and words and things that inspired her preserved from when we were little. I hope my children, through reading everything I’ve written — the good, the bad, the beautiful — will always read between the lines and be inspired by the constant truth of “Wow, she loved us. She celebrated life.”
BNR: One of the things you consider is how much you let your sense of how society perceives you shape how you feel about yourself. Was writing this book a way of shaping your own identity — and taking charge of your own narrative?
KH: I can’t begin to explain what writing this book has personally done for me. I owned every word I wrote, and as I typed it, I believed it even more. Empowerment — that’s what it is. I realize how much stronger I am, how much more effective I am in living purposefully, when I take control of how I feel about myself, my family and raising my kids, write it down, and put it out there for the world to see.
BNR: It sounds like writing is deeply therapeutic for you.
KH: There’s something mysterious and enlightening about the space I give myself when I write. It’s when I take all those loose philosophical/emotional thoughts I’ve had throughout the week and weave them together. I learn a lot about myself. I face my pain and struggles head-on, and I overcome them through the process of expressing myself. And, for me, when I write I’m going to do something? It’s even more powerful than saying it. When I write, “I’m going to rock this out,” it’s almost as if I hear the band in the background with each letter I type. I feel motivated, eager, excited. I’m inspired in a way I can’t explain. Writing is powerful — and it doesn’t cost near as much as therapy does.
BNR: Is it the same with photography?
KH: After taking pictures for a while, you begin to look at life a little differently, continually scanning landscapes, people, situations for that “framable” shot. In those first days, taking photos of Nella brought light to her beauty and made me recognize how perfect she was — the new, wrinkled skin on her fingers, those sparse rows of tiny eyelashes, her soft cowlick of silky hair. And it went beyond Nella as well. When I thought my world was this depressing reality, I’d pick up my camera and see the opposite — oh look, a sunset. Vivid blue skies. My child holding an ice cream cone with rainbow sprinkles. A dimpled smile. My husband rocking his new girl to sleep. I never stopped taking pictures of these things, and it sinks in after a while: Look for the good, and you will find it.
BNR: What are you most hoping readers will take away from “Bloom”?
KH: Life is full of challenges. But life is also as beautiful as you create it to be.
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Why did Bob Dylan compose the classic “Like a Rolling Stone” only after he had become so disgusted with his own music that he was planning to quit the business permanently? How did Silicon Valley become a hub of innovation while other genius-packed cities did not? And what does the placement of a company’s bathrooms have to do with the number of innovative products it makes?
These questions –- and many more like them — are at the heart of Jonah Lehrer’s new book “Imagine: How Creativity Works.” The journalist and author of “Proust and the Neuroscientist” and “How We Decide” has taken on one of the most deceptive and beguiling problems in the science of mind, what he calls “our most important talent: the ability to imagine what has never existed.” His investigation into how we invent new things, and why some people and communities are more creative than others, takes the reader on a wide-ranging journey through the work of social scientists and neurological researchers — but also into the lives and insights of inventors and engineers, writers and salespeople, musicians and magicians, teachers and students. The result is a bracing, entertaining and counterintuitive guide to an aspect of ourselves that often seems an unsolvable mystery.
Jonah Lehrer spoke with us via email about his new book, and what he’s learned in the making of it.
The Barnes & Noble Review: One of the things that stands out in “Imagine” is how creativity is frequently misperceived, or partly misperceived, as associated with pure freedom of the mind. But in so many cases you highlight the opposite perspective — the one expressed by Milton Glaser’s words as he describes creativity as “a very time-consuming verb”: You highlight the effectiveness of the harsh group critique to enable ideas to grow, or the centrality of “grit” as a building block for a young artist to cultivate.
Jonah Lehrer: There are all sorts of romantic misconceptions about creativity. We’ve long believed, for instance, that the imagination is hindered by constraints and constructive criticism. But the scientific evidence clearly suggests that the opposite is true. We think of creativity as being an innate trait — you either have it or you don’t — when studies have consistently shown that even seemingly minor factors, such as the color of paint on the wall, can dramatically increase creative output. And then there’s the myth of effort. Because creativity has long been associated with the muses, we’ve assumed that creativity should feel easy and effortless, that if we’re truly inventive then the gods will take care of us. But nothing could be further from the truth. Instead, creativity is like any other human talent – it takes an enormous amount of effort to develop. And then, even after we’ve learned to effectively wield the imagination, we still have to invest the time and energy needed to fine-tune our creations. If it feels easy, then you’re doing it wrong.
BNR: The discussion of brainstorming is particularly counterintuitive; you point to research that indicates how “criticism and debate” — despite the former term’s association with repressive negativity — is a more fruitful model for groups working together. If brainstorming is so unsuccessful a strategy for generating innovation, why has it held on for so long?
JL: I think the allure of brainstorming is inseparable from the fact that it feels good. A group of people are put together in a room and told to free-associate, with no criticism allowed. (The imagination is meek and shy: If it’s worried about being criticized it will clam up.) Before long, the whiteboard is filled with ideas. Everybody has contributed; nobody has been criticized. Alas, the evidence suggests that the overwhelming majority of these free-associations are superficial and that most brainstorming sessions actually inhibit the productivity of the group. We become less than the sum of our parts.
As you note, researchers have shown that group collaborations benefit from debate and dissent; it is the human friction that makes the sparks. Alas, the presence of criticism means that a few people are going to get their feelings hurt. So I think one reason we’ve clung to brainstorming for decades is that it increases employee morale, even if that comes at the cost of creativity. That’s an unfortunate truth, of course, but that doesn’t make it less true. There’s a reason why Steve Jobs always insisted that new ideas required “brutal honesty.”
BNR: Much of your book explores what might be said to be the central paradox of creativity: It seems to require both resolute, disciplined focus and, in Yo-Yo Ma’s phrase, “the abandon of a child.” Is this because when we are talking about the imagination we are really talking about multiple neurological functions? Or is it that creativity is a kind of protean idea itself, that changes with the artist — one might approach everything through “getting in the flow” and another who exists in the world of endless, patient revision?
JL: One of the most dangerous myths of creativity is that it’s a single thing, separate from other kinds of cognition. In reality, however, “creativity” is a catch-all term for a variety of distinct thought processes, each of which is well suited to particular kinds of problems. And this is why different parts of the creative process require different kinds of creative thinking. For instance, a big epiphany relies on a very different set of brain structures than the editing that comes afterward. A pianist in the midst of an improvised solo is thinking very differently from an inventor tweaking a gadget, even though both are in the midst of invention. So whether we should aspire to the abandon of a child or seek out focus depends on the kind of creativity we need at that moment. There is no universal prescription for creative thinking.
This also helps explain why there are as many creative methods as there are creators. Some people smoke joints; others chug coffee. Some go for walks; others stay late at the office. Some need collaborators; others need solitude. Creativity, like most interesting things, resists easy generalizations. I wanted “Imagine” to capture this complexity, not pretend that it doesn’t exist.
BNR: Some of the most thought-provoking insights in “Imagine” describe creative methodologies that seem to aim in one direction, but actually seek to trick (or perhaps hack) the brain’s programming. For example, you describe how students of improvisation at Second City spend a brief session before each class sharing maximally intimate confessions from their lives. The point for the actors isn’t, as it might appear, to get in touch with deep emotions. Rather, it’s to simply shut off the censoring part of the brain, so that in the work that follows, ideas and associations emerge freely. Should more of us be employing these sorts of strategies?
JL: Creativity is so hard that I think we need all the help we can get. Some of the mind hacks I describe in “Imagine” come from watching the time-tested habits of successful creators, such as those comics at Second City. And other hacks come from science, from the controlled conditions of the lab. Did you know, for instance, that people solve 30 percent more insight puzzles when they’re slightly drunk? That’s my kind of empiricism.
BNR: So much of your previous book “How We Decide” described ways in which we have difficulty understanding how our brains are actually working — the “emotional brain” secretly working away inside, with our assumptions about the supremacy of the “rational brain” leading us into constant miscalculation. ”Imagine” has a similar focus on the mysteries of thought, but, perhaps in keeping with the title, the emphasis seems to be more on collaborating with the unknown parts of the self. Did you see it that way? Are your books on a continuum in your own mind?
JL: I think both books revel in the fact that so much of our wisdom — whether it’s those inexplicable hunches that lead to good decisions, or that moment of insight that comes in the shower — emerge from mental places we have no access to. This is strange, no? The mind remains a black box, even when it’s our own mind!
And this is where modern science comes in handy. All these fancy experimental tools help us peer below the surface of consciousness, illuminating those darkened corners that we’re not even aware of. As a result, we’re able to understand ourselves in a new way and hopefully squeeze a few more epiphanies from those three pounds of Jell-O inside the skull.
BNR: Although your book is largely not a prescriptive one, an idea that your last three chapters all strongly support seems to be designing ways for more “creative collisions” to occur in schools, at work and in everyday life. Over the last several years, the focus in many aspects of our culture has been on building a digital “social network.” Can this do the work of physical and conversational interaction? Do we need to spend more resources, as a culture, encouraging the power of the “emergent property of people coming together”?
JL: In the late 1990s, when the dot-com fever was at its peak, many technology enthusiasts predicted that cities and physical offices would soon become obsolete, a relic of the analog age. After all, in an online world of email and video chats, why should we sacrifice our quality of life to live amid strangers? Cheap bandwidth would mean the end of expensive rents: The zeroes and ones hurtling across the fiber optic cables would supply us with all of our human interactions.
Of course, this pessimism has not come to pass. More people than ever before are moving to cities; we still commute to skyscrapers. (One of my favorite factoids is that attendance at business conferences has doubled since the invention of Skype.) And I think the reason Skype has not killed off cities and offices is because something magical happens when we cram ourselves together. It turns out that all those random interactions add up, which is why the most innovative cities and workspaces have a way of hurling people together, forcing them to converse and share knowledge.
I’m reminded here of that great Steve Jobs story about the Pixar headquarters. When he was planning the studio in the late 1990s, he had the building arranged around a central atrium, so that the diverse staff of artists, writers and computer scientists would run into each other. But Jobs soon realized that it wasn’t enough to create an airy atrium; he needed to force people to go there. He began with the mailboxes, which he shifted to the lobby. Then he moved the meeting rooms to the center of the building, followed by the cafeteria, the coffee bar and the gift shop. Finally, he decided that the atrium should contain the only set of bathrooms in the entire building. (He was later forced to compromise and install a second pair of bathrooms.) At first, people hated this design, since it meant they were constantly schlepping to the atrium. But now lots of people have their bathroom breakthrough story, describing how some errant conversation while washing their hands led to an insight.
BNR: Has working on this topic changed the way you think, your approach to “creative” tasks? Do you work differently than you did before you started this book?
JL: It definitely has. I think the single biggest change is how I respond to a creative block. Before, when I was stuck on a piece of writing — and I’m often stuck — I’d chain myself to my desk. I’d drink strong coffee and will myself to focus until I found the answer. I assumed that the answer would only arrive if I searched for it relentlessly.
Of course, I’d often wake up the next day and realize that my “answer” was often an illusion, that I’d stayed up late to get a fix that didn’t really fix anything. And so I’d be forced to begin again.
And here’s where the science comes in handy. Now, when I’m really stuck, I think about all that research on moments of insight, which suggests that insights are far more likely to arrive when we’re relaxed, and better able to eavesdrop on the murmurs of the unconscious. Instead of staying at my desk, I go for a long walk. Einstein once declared that “creativity is the residue of time wasted.” So I guess you could say I’ve gotten much better at wasting time.
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