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Monday, Sep 6, 2010 8:01 PM UTC2010-09-06T20:01:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

Inside the strange world of “Hoarders”

The addictive reality show is changing views on our possessions. A participant from the show shares her experiences

Inside the strange world of

“I think I’ve always been a collector,” said Kim, a pretty Southern blonde in her 30s with an easy laugh. “A collector of memories, of pictures.” Kim still bristles at the term “hoarder,” although that’s the name of the show she appeared on last May, after a friend nominated her for the honor.

Granted, compared with many of the participants on the eminently watchable reality series, which begins its third season tonight on A&E — a show that has featured such jaw-dropping spectacles as a couple whose house is so cluttered they move themselves and their young children into a tent in the yard and a man whose studio apartment overflows with garbage and excrement in seemingly equal amounts — Kim is one of the least extreme cases. Kim’s clutter is mostly clothing (some with the tags still attached) and paperwork brought home from her job, but it carpeted the floor of her office, joining a colony of soda cans in her living room. Part of the allure of the show is the relationship between the strangeness of hoarding, how absolutely unreasonable and destructive it is, and the familiarity of it.

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Tess Lynch is a writer living in Los Angeles. She has contributed to The Awl, This Recording, and Urlesque. You can read more of her essays on her cluttered blog, Wipe Your Feet.  More Tess Lynch

Saturday, Dec 17, 2011 8:00 PM UTC2011-12-17T20:00:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

Hoarding: A love story

The shame of my mother's cluttered home made me keep men at a distance. Then I saw the house where Jon grew up

I was excited and nervous when Jon invited me to celebrate the first night of Hanukkah with his parents. Three months into our relationship, I would finally meet his family. But on the way there, he stopped the car to warn me: His mother had a lot of stuff.

“Whatever,” I said.

“No, I mean a lot of stuff,” he said. “Vases. Plates. Newspapers.”

He had no idea how much junk it would take to impress me. Jon and I had been quite frank about our lives. But open as we were, I was terrified to tell him the truth about the mess that I came from.

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Judy Batalion is a writer and performer whose work has appeared in the Washington Post, the Jerusalem Post and Nerve, among others. She is currently working on a novel and lives with her husband and daughter in a sparsely decorated apartment in New York City.  More Judy Batalion

Saturday, Sep 24, 2011 8:01 PM UTC2011-09-24T20:01:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

The collapse of American justice

Not long ago, we had a low incarceration rate and a system that worked. Then everything started to unravel

The collapse of American justice

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Among the great untold stories of our time is this one: the last half of the twentieth century saw America’s criminal justice system unravel. Signs of the unraveling are everywhere. The nation’s record- shattering prison population has grown out of control. Still more so the African American portion of that prison population: for black males, a term in the nearest penitentiary has become an ordinary life experience, a horrifying truth that wasn’t true a mere generation ago. Ordinary life experiences are poor deterrents, one reason why massive levels of criminal punishment coexist with historically high levels of urban violence.

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Tuesday, Sep 13, 2011 12:30 AM UTC2011-09-13T00:30:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

My $10,000 storage unit mistake

As I sift through junk I've held on to for decades, I wonder why I'm willing to pay so much to avoid letting go

My $10,000 storage unit mistake

Earlier this year, I cleared out a storage locker jammed with the accumulated overflow of almost two adult decades — along with some boxes of college books tossed in for good measure. This was actually my second storage locker, the successor to the Manhattan mini-storage unit that I acquired to insert some breathing space in the Upper West Side one-bedroom I rented shortly after law school. It was intended as a temporary measure, a momentary regrouping. But eight years later, when I finally packed up, the unit was still mine.

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Amy Gutman served as a special assistant to Harvard Law School Dean (now U.S. Supreme Court justice) Elena Kagan until April 2009. She now lives and looks for work in western Massachusetts.  More Amy Gutman

Tuesday, Aug 23, 2011 1:01 AM UTC2011-08-23T01:01:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

I’m a sex writer with a secret shame — hoarding

I'm open about my fetishes and fantasies. But there's one thing about my life that pains me to admit

I'm a sex writer with a secret shame -- hoarding

Over the past decade as a writer specializing in sex, I’ve dished about my erotic escapades, from threesomes to kinky parties to a date gone wrong with a Top Chef. I’ve posed with a freshly spanked bottom for a sex blogger calendar, masturbated on HBO’s “Real Sex” and edited books like “Best Bondage Erotica 2011.” Writing about my intimate life has never felt awkward. I didn’t grow up with shame around sex and didn’t carry any of it into adulthood. Divulging those stories, as well as fictionalizing fantasies about bukkake or webcam exhibitionism, has been a way to understand and come to terms with my desires. Because I’ve been so open, though, some people think I have no skeletons in my closet. And I do — or rather, I would if the two-bedroom Brooklyn, N.Y., apartment I’ve lived in for over 11 years had any closets.

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Rachel Kramer Bussel is the editor of 39 anthologies, most recently "Obsessed: Erotic Romance for Women" and "Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex," as well as the "Best Sex Writing" series. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, a columnist for SexIs Magazine, and a blogger at Lusty Lady and Cupcakes Take the Cake.  More Rachel Kramer Bussel

Saturday, Jul 9, 2011 6:01 PM UTC2011-07-09T18:01:00Zl, M j, Y g:i A T

A guilty liberal confronts her stuff

Lately, I'm torn between recycling my old things -- and becoming a hoarder who can't throw away junk

A guilty liberal confronts her

Have you ever spent 10 minutes staring at a box of discolored envelopes?

I have. Rest assured: I’m confessing here, not bragging.

Just the other day in my home office, I froze dumbly before a white Pottery Barn bookcase that doubles as a supply cabinet. My cat Waldo eyed me suspiciously from his nearby window perch, as if I’d lost my mind. He was probably right. I was caught in a heady internal debate. Was it more responsible to recycle the yellowed, unusable envelopes in my cabinet, as they monopolized space inside? Or would that act be wasteful? Maybe I should save a tree and try to use them for origami? After all, earthquake and tsunami victims in Japan might be entirely without stained office supplies!

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Nora Zelevansky is a freelance journalist, essayist and blogger, whose work has appeared in publications like ELLE, The Los Angeles Times, The Washington Post, Town & Country, Allure, Martha Stewart, Style.com, Vanity Fair online and many more. She is currently a Contributing Writer for C Magazine and co-authors a blog for self.com called "Fit Like Us." Her first novel will be released in spring 2012.  More Nora Zelevansky

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