Carter said his group was not able to monitor the entire process because authorities only granted his mission’s observers permits a week before the race. The Carter Center said in a statement that the observers were not able to witness the aggregation of the ballots, which “severely undermines the overall transparency of the election results.”

The third place finisher, Hamdeen Sabahi, has demanded a recount, citing violations that he has yet to disclose.

Carter said the violations — such as a lack of privacy for voters and the observers’ lack of access to the final vote counting — won’t affect the ultimate results.

“I don’t think the mistakes and errors and improprieties that we have witnessed in the last few days will have a negative impact on the runoff,” he told reporters. However, he stressed that his center is only able to make a “limited” judgment on the elections because of the limits on their mission.

He said he believed the restraints were in place because the election commission’s decisions are final and cannot be contested by any higher court, leaving it in charge of making final calls about the process.

“It was not restrictive to distort the outcome of the elections, I don’t think,” Carter told The Associated Press.

He said he was hesitant about accepting the mission because of the limits placed on it, but in the end decided to go ahead with it because he personally has been “deeply involved” in the Egyptian transition process from the outset. The Carter Center also monitored Egypt’s parliamentary elections, which stretched from last November to February 2012.

He said the presidential election was a “great step forward” from those earlier votes, which were largely viewed as free.

Carter said the final announcement of the two contenders for the runoffs have not yet been officially announced.

He said whoever the candidates are, they will seek to accommodate the demands of the revolutionary groups and other groups who didn’t vote for them, including Christians.

“That is part of the democratic process,” he said. “The oppressive military regimes are over for ever, I hope. The people have an unimpeded right to chose their own leaders in a democratic process. I think human rights in the future will be honored much more closely than ever before. So I think democracy has come to Egypt even though they are some difficulties in the transition process. I think they will be overcome.”

Thanks to the wonders of modern computer graphics, these parents can watch their children “age” — digitally, at least. But no one can write a program capable of generating the milestones — high school graduation, college, marriage, parenthood — that come along with growing up.

Some, like Mike and Maddi Misheloff of Dublin, Calif., exist in a kind of suspended animation, unwilling to move or even redecorate the lost one’s bedroom.

Many, like the Patzes, live with the “what ifs.” What if they hadn’t given in to his “please,” hadn’t let him make his first solo walk to the school bus stop that May day in 1979?

A few suffer under a cloud of suspicion themselves — like Judy Moore of Jackson, Ky., whose 6-year-old son, Kelly, disappeared in 1982 while playing in the snow.

Back when Etan vanished, authorities put the children’s faces on milk cartons. Today, their names and images flash across the Internet and digital highway signs.

It is a horrifying truth that the best some families can hope for is that their child is being held against their will, says activist John Walsh.

Before her rescue in 2009, Jaycee Dugard was repeatedly raped and gave birth to two daughters during 18 years of captivity at the hands of a known sex offender. But the California woman was alive, says Walsh, host of television’s “America’s Most Wanted.”

“Against all hope and reality, every now and then a child comes back alive,” says Walsh, whose 6-year-old son, Adam, was abducted from a Florida department store in July 1981 and murdered. “So that’s why these people keep their rooms and their phone numbers, because it’s part of the staying mentally sane. It’s part of the being able to cope with the worst possible thing that could ever happen to you — your beautiful, loving child disappears.”

Through his show, Walsh has helped capture more than 1,200 criminals and bring home about 60 missing children. He knows the Patzes and has shared their heartache as each lead evaporated, and one “breakthrough” after another ended in disappointment.

“My wife has a wonderful saying,” says Walsh. “It’s like a mortal wound that you don’t die from. It heals over and it has a scab on it. And events like that crack it open, and it bleeds. It’ll never die.”

Across America, as the Patzes wait to see if they will at last get justice for Etan, parents’ hearts are bleeding anew.

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With their other two children grown and out on their own, the Misheloffs’ house is a bit too big for them. But they wouldn’t dream of moving while there is still a chance that Ilene might return.

“She has to come back to HER house,” her father says.

“This is her home,” his wife agrees. “We have to be here for her.”

They have left their daughter’s room just as it was on Jan. 30, 1989 — the day she vanished. Not as a shrine, Maddi Misheloff says, but simply because, “It’s her room.

“And on the daily hope that we’re getting her back,” she says.

Ilene was 13 when she disappeared on her way home from Wells Middle School to change into her figure-skating clothes. She had recently competed in her first regional meet, and her family had gotten permission for her to leave while everyone else was in last period.

That morning, Ilene was brushing her hair in the bathroom as Maddi Misheloff walked by on her way out the door to her office job at a physical therapy and medical supply company. The two exchanged a quick “I love you.”

Mike Misheloff, an engineer at a Silicon Valley semiconductor company, was driving Ilene and her twin brother, Brian, the mile or so to school. They were running late, and the kids bolted from the car as soon as their father pulled up at the school.

Ilene, a pretty girl with braces and curly brown hair, was wearing a charcoal gray pullover polo sweater, a horizontally striped pink and charcoal skirt, and black, low-top Keds sneakers. She was carrying a dark-blue backpack.

After school, she usually had a snack while she waited for her coach to come pick her up. But she never got home that day.

The couple have been in contact with police off and on since Ilene’s disappearance. But they haven’t heard anything since the beginning of the year, when the lead investigator was promoted and a new detective took his place.

Both parents have been following the Patz case. But a more recent event brought the emotions flooding back.

In the last few days, a Central Valley man was arrested in the disappearance of a 15-year-old girl. Although no body has been found, police say there is enough evidence to suspect a homicide, Mike Misheloff says.

“We want to know where our child is,” his wife says. “Every day without her is torture, and we want her back.”

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When Judy Moore heard that the Patzes second-guess their decision to let Etan walk to the bus stop alone that day, she wept.

“You’re reading my mind,” she says, the tears coming afresh. “It’s pitiful.”

Moore, 55, had lost one prematurely born baby at 5 weeks. A judge had given custody of her two older children to her parents because her epilepsy made it difficult for her to care for them, she says.

Kelly, her baby, was all she had left.

Moore and Kelly’s father, Bobby Hollan, were divorced. On Feb. 12, 1982, mother and her son were living with Moore’s boyfriend in a rented house halfway up Pine Tree Hollow, near the town of Hindman in the eastern Kentucky mountains.

There was a dusting of snow on the ground. Kelly — a blue-eyed boy with a scar on his upper lip from an operation to repair a birth defect — had the day off from kindergarten and was begging to go outside and play.

After about two hours, Moore says, she relented. He pulled on his brown boots and the blue wind breaker with the torn zipper and headed for the door.

“He hugged me and said, ‘Mom, I love you,’” she says, her voice breaking.

It was around 11:30 a.m.

She sat on the bed and watched him out the window for a while. A couple of hours later, a neighbor yelled down to say that Moore’s sister was on the telephone.

When she came back home from the call, she says, Kelly was gone.

Moore assumed he was up the road at his friend Gordon’s house, where they watched “The Dukes of Hazzard” together. She went to the kitchen to fix dinner — soup beans and cornbread.

When Kelly didn’t come home for supper, she went up and down the hollow looking for him. It started snowing again.

Police brought out a cadaver dog. No trace was ever found.

Moore says she stopped contacting the police years ago.

“They keep trying to get me to confess to murder,” she says incredulously. “I understand that there’s mothers out there that do things like this. It makes me sick. I mean, how a mother can do something like that to their own flesh and blood, I’ll never understand it.”

She says her other two children believe the rumors. They are estranged.

She believes Kelly is still alive. If not, she takes comfort in the thought that he is “one of God’s little angels.”

“I shouldn’t have let him go out in the yard and play that day,” she says through her tears. “But I did. It’s just stuff that we do, and we can’t take it back. I wish we could, but we can’t.”

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The outgoing message on the Wetterlings’ answering machine says it all.

“Hope is an amazing force that we all need in our lives EVERY day,” Patty Wetterling’s voice declares.

The evening of Oct. 22, 1989, she and her chiropractor husband, Jerry, were going out to visit with friends. They asked Jacob, 11, to baby-sit his two younger siblings — Trevor, 10, and Carmen, 8.

They called home to give Jacob the phone number where they were, in case of an emergency. Not long afterward, the children called to say they were bored, and to ask permission to ride their bikes to the video store — about a mile away.

“No,” their mother said instinctively. “Find something to do at home.”

Trevor asked to speak to their dad. He promised they would take a flashlight; Jake would wear the father’s reflective jogging vest.

The parents conferred, then acquiesced. When Jacob called back around 8:30 to say that Carmen didn’t want to come, the Wetterlings agreed with his solution to have the 13-year-old neighbor girl sit with her until they got back with the movie.

“It should have been OK,” she says.

The brothers and a friend made it to the store, where they chose their movie — Leslie Nielsen’s cop comedy, “The Naked Gun” — and bought some candy. They were about halfway home when, the other two boys told authorities, a masked gunman emerged from a driveway.

He ordered them to throw their bikes into a ditch and lie down. After asking each boy his age, he told Trevor and the friend to run toward the nearby woods and not look back.

But after a short distance, they did turn around — just in time to see the man leading Jacob away by the elbow.

There have been many leads over the years.

“We have had leads in the last two weeks,” Wetterling says.

Wetterling was a stay-at-home mom when Jake vanished. Today, she is director of sexual violence prevention for the Minnesota Department of Health.

Altered paths.

She takes heart in the fact that a relative turned in the man now charged with murdering Etan.

“We all need answers,” she says of her family, the Patzes and all the others. “We believe somebody else knows something … They’ve also carried an awful heavy load, and it’s time to come forward.”

But that doesn’t mean she has given up on finding Jacob alive.

“I’m not just looking for a murderer to come forward; I’m looking for information,” she says. “I pray for that.”

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Online:

Ilene Misheloff’s search page: http://www.find-ilene.org

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Associated Press researcher Judith Ausuebel contributed to this report.

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Allen G. Breed is a national writer, based in Raleigh, N.C. He can be reached at features(at)ap.org.

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The Spanish government has promised to honor Bankia’s request, made late Friday, for €19 billion ($23.8 billion) in state aid, an amount far higher than what it envisioned when the government effectively nationalized the bank this month after it was stuck with some €32 billion ($40 billion) in toxic assets derived mainly from the burst real estate bubble.

At the time of nationalization, the Bank of Spain agreed to inject to €4.5 billion ($5.7 billion) in rescue funds.

The government fears the cost of rescuing the country’s vulnerable banks could overwhelm its finances, which are already strained by a double-dip recession and an unemployment rate of nearly 25 percent, and force it to seek a rescue by the rest of Europe — already preoccupied by crisis-hit Greece.

Another obstacle is the interest rate of Spain’s benchmark 10-year bond, which was at 6.29 percent Friday. Anything above 7 percent is considered unsustainable in the long run.

Goirigolzarri outlined the bank’s restructuring and recapitalization plans, which foresee beginning of the injection of state funds in late June. He said one of his priorities is to “strengthen corporate governance.” He said his target is to provide Bankia with a core capital of 9.5 percent.

Detailed plans of the bank’s restructuring will be made public in mid-June and need to be approved by shareholders, he said.

In June, Bankia, will have access to €4.5 billion ($5.7 billion) requested on May 9 from the state bank rescue fund, FROB. This will be followed in July by the €19 billion state recapitalization asked for on Friday, Goirigolzarri said.

Should Bankia, Spain’s fourth largest bank, be able to raise capital on its own by appealing to private investors and existing shareholders, then the government’s share could be reduced, he said.

Goirigolzarri said his aim is to consolidate Bankia as a leading financial institution capable of operating with solvency, liquidity and profitability. “We are conscious that we will be managing an organization that has public participation,” he said.

Concern about the health of Europe’s banks is a key part of the region’s financial crisis. Spanish banks are seen as particularly shaky because they were heavily exposed to soured investments such as defaulted mortgage loans and devalued property.

The big fear is that if Greece leaves the euro, confidence in other financially weak countries like Spain and Italy could fall, causing the value of their bonds to drop. Ultimately, the worry is that it could undermine confidence in the system and create bank runs.

Bankia’s request for recapitalization came as Standard & Poor’s downgraded it and four other Spanish banks to junk status because of uncertainty over their restructuring. Such a move could make it more difficult for the banks to borrow the money they need to turn themselves around.

The bailout has angered a public suffering under the high jobless rate and relentless cuts. Alvaro Torres, 49, who owns a small fruit and vegetable market stall in Madrid, said that if there had been mismanagement in running the bank down, then those in charge should face a criminal investigation.

“If the bank needs to be helped out they should help it out, but first things first, those responsible should be held responsible,” he said.

Goirigolzarri said his main immediate concern is to recapitalize Bankia, and that he will later decide on how to begin issuing credit.

“We want to expand business, so expanding credit, that is in our interest,” he said.

The bank’s shares have become subject to turbulent trading. On Friday, Spain’s stock market regulator suspended them as Goirigolzarri and his board of directors met to assess how much aid to ask for.