Part sendup, part anxious self-portrait: “Friendship” and the new Brooklyn novel
From Adelle Waldman to Emily Gould, why is it so hard to find the universal in this specific milieu?
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I recently followed an argument on Twitter related to Emily Gould’s new novel. (No, not that one: My instinct is to stay as far as possible from that sad, scary ordeal.) Instead, I’m referring to a different controversy
There was Jenny Offill’s “Department of Speculation,” a novel in lovely pieces that earns its formidable hype. There was Adelle Waldman’s “The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.,” a smart (seeming) roman à clef told from the perspective of a 30-year-old male writer and rake. There was a more recent debut, Julia Fierro’s “Cutting Teeth,” a compulsively readable if occasionally schlocky novel full of trenchant, squirm-inducing detail about bougie Brooklyn parents. The books are not a matched set by any means, but they overlap considerably; mostly they are about the same group of creative class people — either actually affluent or having amassed some amount of cultural capital — with an age differential of about 10 years. These people live in a very particular mode of Brooklyn. And now, Internet veteran Emily Gould joins their narrow milieu.
Gould’s debut novel, “Friendship,” arrives freighted with the mixed blessing of her name recognition. When I first began reading Gould online, I found she blurred together with a cadre of people who wrote raw things for mass consumption on the Internet, and who made me feel a mix of puritanical loathing and envy that I subsequently realized were in fact mostly the same sentiment. In the years since I first watched Gould’s eyebrows wiggle in combat on camera (a quirk she describes early in her novel), I have so mellowed on this score that when several months ago she published a long, candid essay on the financial realities of writing a novel — a piece that resonated with some people and thoroughly annoyed others — I immediately pre-ordered her book. I’m a youngish urban cat-lover with aspirations, too; I want people like me to succeed. (I’m also a writer, one who has never been paid more than $300 for something I’ve written. If there’s a little schadenfreude in reading about someone blowing through an astronomical advance — received for a collection of personal essays, of all things — there’s a greater measure of admiration for anyone who remits a frank accounting of her untidy finances.)
Thus I started the novel with a feeling of anxiety and a set of baggage that is hardly fair, but is basically standard-issue when it comes to reading novels by people who are more or less your age and live in Brooklyn and were once paid $200,000 for a compilation of their feelings. Early in “Friendship,” the artistic fruits of Gould’s penury, a 30-year-old woman rides the train to an interview for a temp job. This is Bev, who, confronted with a question about her life’s aspirations on the agency application, notes the late hour and scribbles down her responses: “The truth, as usual, came to her more easily than fiction.” I worried that this was a portent — either a clumsy, knowing one, or something inadvertent but no less unfortunate. It’s true that the obvious Gould corollary in the novel is the other character in the titular friendship: Amy Schein, a one-time editor at a major New York gossip blog, now a floundering has-been at “the third-most-popular online destination for cultural coverage with a modern Jewish angle.” But the line still seemed ominous. When it comes to the truth, Gould has real chops. Fiction is necessarily another ball game.
It turns out, though, that many of the chops can be transferred. Bev, riding toward a temp job where she will meet the future absentee father of her child, is dressed in a “jacket and skirt that were slightly different shades of black.” At the job, Bev will worry about operating a multiline office phone, which takes on an “aura of menace.” In Bev’s previous incarnation as a publishing assistant, her office clothes were “poly-blend jackets and skirts from the part of H&M where you went when, broke, you still had to try to dress for the job you wanted.” After hours, she and Amy drink at a bar where “the beers were so cheap and the patrons so poor and unattractive that it seemed like an elaborate re-creation of a bar in a different city (say, Philadelphia).” Amy’s prospects have always seemed better than Bev’s, both when she occupied a higher rung on a publishing house ladder, or even in their respective third acts, when her job at Yidster provides the salary and benefits that Bev’s temp positions don’t. But Amy still lives paycheck to paycheck, and “being reminded of this made her uncomfortable, and feeling uncomfortable made her want to stop on the way home from work at a gourmet grocery store and spend eleven dollars on a two-ounce jar of pine nuts.”
“Friendship” is full of these details, and for people who can relate, they have a rueful, even tender quality. I’ve never lived in New York, but like many women, I have worn mismatched blacks to an interview at a temp agency because I didn’t have a suit. I have cobbled together business-casual from a makeup-smeared selection of $11 H&M separates. I have been menaced by multiline phones, and purchased insane grocery items I could ill afford. Like Bev, I have studied menus prior to dinners I know I won’t pay for, and like Amy, I have said horrible, judgmental things in bright sentences that turn up at the end.
These details can carry the novel a certain distance, but the story has to be there, too. And in some ways it is: Bev becomes pregnant after a drunken night with a temp job casanova. Her pregnancy brings about the crisis of her and Amy’s friendship. The characters make decisions about their lives; rifts are occasioned and repaired by text message.
Gould’s talents hitherto have been mostly in the realm of self-expression, and suspicious readers may doubt her ability to convincingly depict second and third and fourth parties. But the central characters, Bev and Amy, are well drawn. The novel suffers in places that seem predictable for an essayist; it’s not a long novel, but a lot of big things happen very quickly and often too conveniently to its characters. A single email to Sally, an older and substantially richer married woman with no children, and Bev’s baby has a fairy godmother (and Amy an unlikely paramour). In her nadir, Amy walks past a soup kitchen needing volunteers; life begins to look up. The plot occasionally shows its wires and string. But I still wanted to know what happened next.
Gould’s writing has often had a Holly Golightly quality that allows her to describe undesirable or at least embarrassing personal characteristics in a highly relatable way. (There are a number of Internet commenters who don’t agree with me; it’s worth noting, though, that 20th-century male writers have long achieved, nay, excelled at this style of self-expression, and had notoriously unorthodox finances, and mooched off partners and refused to get real jobs, and people don’t generally shit on them on the Internet.) Taken with her Medium essay, Gould’s novel, and Amy’s descent from lofty media heights to retail chain manager, seem a bit like a personal exorcism–an admission of failure to thrive in an alluring but ultimately hostile landscape. And in its interest in this landscape and the society it engenders, “Friendship” is on familiar ground.
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Many of the preoccupations shared by Gould, Waldman and their ilk are so similar as to seem a feature of Brooklyn’s very soil. Of course, there are adjustments depending on the age of the characters — Jenny Offill and Julia Fierro’s characters grapple with marital desire and the raising of children; Adelle Waldman and Gould’s characters are, some of them perhaps permanently, in the pre-child phases of their respective existences. But they worry about and do and admire similar things. These are people who wish their apartments were nicer but eat $24 entrees. Amy’s fridge contains expensive pine nuts and “Moroccan oil-packed sun-dried tomatoes”; Offill’s narrator’s husband doubts that they could leave Brooklyn and live rustically because she “once spent $13 on a piece of cheese” and often reads “catalogs meant for the rich.”
