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_______________coloring __O U T S I D E+ T H E+ L I N E S _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ art kits help budding picassos follow their muse. BY ANDREA GOLLIN | no parent wants to be like that evil, creativity-squelching teacher in the Harry Chapin song "Flowers Are Red" who reprimands a boy for making a picture when "it's not the time for art" and then tells him that his picture is wrong because flowers can't be any color, the way he's drawn them. No, "flowers are red ... green leaves are green." The teacher, as we enlightened folk know, should be tarred and feathered for the injury she's inflicted on this budding Picasso, who will now instead become an investment banker and thus be able to afford all the therapy he's going to need. By the time the boy in the song encounters a smiling teacher who recognizes that there are more than two colors in the world, it's too late for him. He's morphed into a dutiful, red-and-green-flower-drawing robot. Over-earnest as the Chapin song is (and it's so didactic that it almost makes you want to draw a couple of red flowers), he does have a point. Of course, everyone knows that children's creativity should be encouraged, that self-expression through art is healthy and that you should give your kids plenty of crayons, even if they eat most of them. But how does a parent encourage artistic creativity? It's difficult to tell a child to go off and paint or draw or color because eventually, assigning a time or making art part of a schedule can make it seem like homework. On the other hand, you want your house to be a place where there's time for art ... Feeling the anxiety yet? The finger being pointed at you for not creating the right environment to allow your children to achieve their potential? There are, of course, plenty of art toys and games and products on the market. Some of them are great products, and some of them capitalize on parental art anxiety. For instance, Disney's Magic Artist is a new CD-ROM that feeds off your insecurities as an art facilitator. "Anyone Can Be Creative" the box announces. Yes, anyone can be creative -- as long as that creativity involves Disney characters. The Disney CD-ROM lets you put various characters into different costumes, poses and backgrounds. For example, you can send Mickey to outer space. There are several drawing tools to choose from that go beyond the standard crayon-marker-paintbrush category to include toothbrush, whipped cream and confetti patterns. The press kit that arrived with the sample CD-ROM conveniently included several possible ways to write about this product. One approach: the computer as the new canvas for the '90s. Throw away that coloring book, click that mouse! A second suggestion: Get over fear of the blank page with the help of ready-made elements, such as backgrounds, that will make art more comforting, less intimidating. OK ... The third idea: All those "tools" necessary for creativity used to be hard to come by, until now, when those inaccessible art products are conveniently packaged on one handy CD-ROM for the whole family! Is a good box of crayons that hard to find? ($35-$40; for ages 6 and up for Windows 95/Macintosh, from Disney Interactive, 800-900-9234) We're not saying that buying this product is akin to selling your soul to the devil; we're saying that it's not about creating art, it's about playing around on the computer with a graphics program. If you want your kids to get more familiar with the computer, and if you don't mind them dreaming about Donald Duck, then this is a great product. But if you want to encourage artistic expression, paper and a pencil would be better. However, the 129-piece Giant Artist Case would be much, much better. It has everything a kid could want, all laid out in nifty rows. There are markers, colored pencils, oil pastels, crayons and watercolors arranged in a portable carrying case. You provide the paper -- and the encouragement. ($23; for ages 5 and up, item MC130 from Battat, 800-247-6144) Aug. 21, 1997 Andrea Gollin is a freelance writer in Miami Beach.

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