My (abnormal?) teenage dream

Introducing our new sex-advice column! First up: A 20-something wonders about his attraction to high school girls

Published September 30, 2011 12:01AM (EDT)

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I'm a 27-year-old guy. I feel as normal as one can be while still being human. Had a great childhood with loving and supportive parents whom I am still close with today. Currently single but have had a lot of healthy relationships with great girls so that has never been a big problem or anything. Never been to jail -- yada, yada. I preface all of this because I have recurring thoughts that seem to only happen with people who have some serious, serious issues.

I often think about and am aroused by thoughts of first-time sexual experiences and playful, innocent-type teenage sexuality. But it's important that I use the word "teenagers" and not "young children." This isn't something I have ever acted on or would even consider for a moment, but I will see high school age girls or couples and get fixated on what they would be like sexually -- what they have done and what it would be like to see a girl experience all these new sex acts for the first time.

It is ridiculous. They are underage and it is wrong. It just seems like someone who is really into that would be someone who has an abusive past, trouble socializing -- I don't know, things like that. Do you feel like I have any reaso...

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