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- - - - - - - - - - - - April 13, 2001 | It's no fun being a tech hack these days -- beating up on floundering dot-coms, ladling on the purple prose for tear-jerking layoff stories and generally dancing on the grave of the Net downturn, shouting "I told you so!" or scolding "We should have known!" Worse still, there are fewer and fewer outlets for the tech journalist's true-life stories of boom gone bust as the tech rags and Web sites that grew bloated from the trickle down of venture capital billions shrink or disappear right along with the subject they cover.
But one San Francisco freelance tech writer has found a way to stand tall in the midst of the fading market for her articles. She has taken up the whip, cane and flogger to supplement her income from the keyboard as a dominatrix. It's sort of tragic.
How'd you decide to become a dominatrix? When it started to get really shitty, I thought, OK, if I want to keep doing this type of reporting on technology, I'm going to have to push a lot harder to do it. And you know, I don't really love it that much, so why am I gonna push like crazy to do something that doesn't really fill me with joy? I made a list of my skills. I could be some type of manager, because I'm very good at being a big, bossy, pain-in-the-ass bitch, or I could be a great teacher, a good public speaker, a stand-up comedian. Dominatrix popped up to the top of the list because I have friends who have done that work, and I always thought I'd be good at it. How did you go from tech writer to dominatrix? I saw this ad in an adult newspaper: "Female Actresses Wanted: Dommes and Femmes." I was like, OK, why not just call? I've spent half my career on the telephone interviewing people, figuring out what the deal is, what the 411 is. I called the guy, and he didn't want to tell me anything on the phone, so I went to meet him. And, Jesus Christ, I was nervous. Of course I arranged to meet him a restaurant, but you don't know who the hell is going to be waiting on the other side. Is it my dad? Is it somebody I used to work for? Is it going to be some horrible ogre? I was terrified, but I went to the restaurant. I met him and we had steaks, awesome steaks.
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