He kills me every night
I was 5 when I saw my mother stabbed by her boyfriend. I don't know how I'll ever be close to a man again
Sunday, Jun 23, 2013 11:59 PM UTC 62Life Love and Sex, dating, PTSD, grief
I was 5 when I saw my mother stabbed by her boyfriend. I don't know how I'll ever be close to a man again
Sunday, Jun 23, 2013 11:59 PM UTC 62I never believed in that diagnosis -- until I dated Jack, and saw what it was like to be powerless to your desires
Monday, Jun 10, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 53Jeff and I thought we'd found the perfect couple friends -- until one of them made an offer that changed everything
Wednesday, May 29, 2013 11:30 PM UTC 206After my husband's traumatic brain injury, we were forced to find an intimacy we'd never known
Tuesday, May 28, 2013 11:00 PM UTC 46Sophia wanted to experiment, so I tried to be game. But it ended badly, with a twist I never saw coming
Monday, May 20, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 95My job at Victoria's Secret taught me a lot about how women dress, but even more about how they talk
Tuesday, May 7, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 84I took an abstinence pledge hoping it would ensure a strong marriage. Instead, it led to a quick divorce
Monday, May 6, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 182People think I'm crazy for being in Ellie's wedding party. Four years ago, I thought she was going to marry me
Tuesday, Apr 9, 2013 11:50 PM UTCIt sounds like a male fantasy: Free rent, great sex and lots of drugs. But I was wracked by guilt and inadequacy
Monday, Apr 8, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 31I'd done so many scary things in my life, but this might be the scariest. At the age of 58, I joined a dating site
Sunday, Mar 31, 2013 11:00 AM UTC 194A provocative Salon essay landed me a spotlight on daytime TV. Then, I had to suffer in it
Monday, Mar 18, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 25Friends and therapists say I'm armoring myself with Tova to hide from true connection. I say she's the real deal
Saturday, Feb 23, 2013 2:00 PM UTC 43Twice I proposed to women hoping that a fancy band could be enough to convince me we'd last a lifetime
Wednesday, Feb 20, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 34When I told her I was bisexual, and fooling around with men, I knew our marriage was doomed. Instead, it opened up
Tuesday, Feb 19, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 73A childhood trauma left me with fear of intimacy and a truth about my sex life that's almost too painful to reveal
Friday, Feb 15, 2013 11:40 PM UTC 30When I penned my novel, I wanted a way out of Hollywood and my own misery. I found an agent -- and something else
Thursday, Feb 14, 2013 1:00 AM UTCI clung to the safety provided by Philip. But years into our marriage, I had lost myself, and my connection to home
Tuesday, Feb 12, 2013 1:00 AM UTC 28He's a happy family man now, but back when we were teenagers, he gave me a big lesson in sex, religion and guilt
Sunday, Feb 10, 2013 2:00 AM UTC 22My clients come to me with fixed ideas about relationships. But I try to challenge their assumptions -- and my own
Tuesday, Feb 5, 2013 1:00 AM UTCI may have cerebral palsy, but I also have a dirty mind. And one of these days, I'm going to have sex
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