Katie Rolnick

Fighting “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”

In a return appearance on "The Rachel Maddow Show," openly gay 1st Lt. Dan Choi talks about being booted by the military -- but accepted by his unit.

On March 19, 1st Lt. Dan Choi, an infantry leader with the New York Army National Guard, appeared on “The Rachel Maddow Show” and stated, “I am gay.” Choi is a West Point graduate, Iraq combat veteran, and Arabic language specialist. He is also a founding member of the independent organization Knights Out, a group of LGBT West Point alumni who, in openly declaring their sexuality, are actively fighting against the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy.

Thursday night, Choi returned to Maddow’s studio (video below) to explain the repercussions he’s experienced since then. To no one’s surprise, Choi has been asked to withdraw from the Army National Guard. Maddow showed pieces of the letter sent to Choi, which stated, “You admitted publicly that you are a homosexual, which constitutes homosexual conduct … Your actions negatively affected the good order and discipline of the New York Army National Guard.”

Choi explained that he can resign and receive honorable discharge or fight the action, which is what he intends to do.

Maddow opened the segment with a story about another dismissed, gay service member, 2nd Lt. Sandy Tsao, who will be discharged as of May 19. After telling her military command that she was gay, Tsao wrote a letter to the White House — and she received a handwritten reply from President Obama. It read:

Thanks for the wonderful and thoughtful letter. It is because of outstanding Americans like you that I committed to changing our current policy. Although it will take some time to complete (partly because it needs Congressional action) I intend to fulfill my commitment!

According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, more than 12,500 men and women have been discharged under the DADT policy since its implementation in 1994. Of those discharged because of their sexuality, more than 55 have been Arabic language specialists

Though Choi said he was “angry,” he was more upset by the implication that his National Guard unit was in some way hindered by his coming out. Maddow asked about his unit’s reaction and Choi proceeded with perhaps the most convincing argument for the repeal of DADT: “Two weeks after I appeared on the show we had National Guard training … I thought, for four days nobody was saying anything, so maybe they don’t watch TV or maybe they don’t read the Army Times. But at the end of the training, so many people came up to me, my peers, my subordinates, people that outranked me, folks that have been in the Army, and this is an infantry unit, infantry men coming up to me and saying, ‘Hey sir, hey Lt. Choi, we know. And we don’t care. What we care about is that you can contribute to the team.’ And what leaders do is they look to see, how can they make the best team before they go to war, that’s what they care about.”

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Remembering Marilyn French

The late feminist author reminded women that "they were not alone and not crazy."

On May 2, feminist writer and theorist Marilyn French died at the age of 79. Not someone to shy away from a challenge, French once declared, “My goal in life is to change the entire social and economic structure of Western civilization, to make it a feminist world.”

French, who was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., first gained notoriety with her 1977 debut novel, “The Women’s Room,” which follows the character Mira Ward, an American housewife in the 1950s, on her path to feminist awakening. Although a single line — falsely attributed to French — has lingered longest, “All men are rapists, and that’s all they are,” spoken by a character whose daughter has been gang-raped, the Guardian describes the book’s deeper impact: “The novel spoke not just to French’s contemporaries but also their daughters, who passed it hand to hand with the same enthusiasm they had shown four years earlier for Erica Jong’s upbeat feminist novel, ‘Fear of Flying.’”

Gloria Steinem spoke to the New York Times on Sunday and said of the book, “It was about the lives of women who were supposed to live the lives of their husbands, supposed to marry an identity rather than become one themselves, to live secondary lives … It expressed the experience of a huge number of women and let them know that they were not alone and not crazy.”

Even as women made strides toward equality, French continued her campaign against patriarchy. The Telegraph describes her 1992 book, “The War Against Women,” as “an attempt to debunk the idea that feminism had managed to free her sisters from their traditional yoke, addressing the subjugation of women by fundamentalist religions and patriarchal systems; sexual harassment and discrimination in the workplace; and domestic violence, rape and incest.”

Carol Jenkins, French’s longtime friend and president of the Women’s Media Center, wrote about first meeting French at a late 1970s women’s event in Long Island, N.Y. She describes French as “breathtakingly brilliant, vibrant and sharp — and outspoken in a way that was unusual in those days. Then, there were still many women who muted their opinions, smiled often, and perfected the skills of ‘getting along.’ I may have been one of them. Marilyn, on the other hand, was among first women I’d met who were ‘having none of it.’ The ‘it’ being a reflexively submissive attitude. Marilyn definitely left an impression.”

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Slipped through the cracks

The stories we missed this week: Boys perform worse in mixed-gender English classrooms, a verdict in the controversial transgender murder trial and a woman's life saved by her bra.

Here are a few of the stories we missed this week:

Justice is served: On Wednesday, a Colorado court sentenced Allen Andrade to life imprisonment without the possibility of parole for the murder of transgender 18-year-old Angie Zapata. Andrade was also found guilty of a hate crime; as Tracy Clark-Flory has previously written about on Broadsheet, the case marked the first time the hate-crime statute was used to prosecute the death of a transgender person. You can watch the heartwrenching statement from Zapata’s family here.

French women still thin, not satisfied: Yes, they’re the thinnest women in Western Europe, with the lowest average body mass index, but French women don’t consider themselves slim and worry more about their weight compared with other Western European women. Oh, go bask in the sun of the Mediterranean coast and eat some fromage already!

Sex in the classroom: In Britain a study conducted at Bristol University found that mixed-gender classrooms hinder the achievement of elementary school boys in English classes but have little to no effect on either gender in math and science. The study’s author, Steven Proud, suggests that it may be beneficial to teach English in single-sex classrooms.

Meanwhile, a study in California has found that the state’s mandatory high school exit exam is keeping a disproportionate number of girls and minorities from graduating despite these students’ ability to perform at the same academic level with white boys on other tests. The exam was implemented in 2007 and is used for state and federal accountability programs like No Child Left Behind. 

Diet torture or torture diet?: While we’ve spent the week reeling from the release of the Bush administration’s torture memos, Huffington Post blogger Sam Stein homed in on a footnote to a May 10, 2005, memorandum from the Office of the Legal Counsel. It seems the Bush attorney general’s office looked to commercial diet programs (you know, the ones you drink out of cans or get delivered to your homes) to justify extreme caloric restriction for detainees. The note explains that, “While detainees subject to dietary manipulation are obviously situated differently from individuals who voluntarily engage in commercial weight-loss programs, we note that widely available commercial weight-loss programs in the United States employ diets of 1000 kcal/day for sustained periods of weeks or longer without requiring medical supervision.” The restrictive, liquid-diet routine was meant to enhance other techniques, like sleep deprivation.

Faster than a speeding bullet bra: Underwires really can save your life.

 

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The storm, it’s a’coming!

The Maine Legislature considers same-sex marriage, and the crowds are flooding in to watch.

Much to the chagrin of the National Organization for Marriage, it seems that a storm of support for gay marriage has hit New England. Today, Maine is holding a legislative hearing to debate a bill to repeal a state law limiting marriage to a union between a man and a woman. Led by Democratic Sen. Dennis S. Damon and supported by 60 legislative co-sponsors, the bill would make Maine the fourth New England state to legalize gay marriage along with Connecticut, Massachusetts and Vermont.

Also up for debate today in front of the State Senate Judiciary Committee is a bill backed by Republican Rep. Leslie Fossel that would expand the rights and responsibilities offered by a domestic partnership registry that was introduced in 2004.

Who will decide the fate of the gay marriage bill is still undetermined; the Legislature has the option of sending the issue to voters or they could simply approve it, at which point opponents could initiate a “people’s veto.” According to the AP, “The earliest a Judiciary Committee vote is expected would be April 28.”

Reports are just coming in that a near-capacity crowd has filled the 4,000 seat Augusta Convention Center, where the hearing is being held, and the hearing was delayed for 30 minutes due to traffic jams. But, to keep the proceedings professional, the legislative committee enacted rules limiting “hooting and hollering” and banned signs and placards inside the building. Wait, so what do I do with my “Giant Gay Repellent Umbrella“? 

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Today in sexting

Bad judgment lands another teen on the sex offender list. But as alarm grows, the Wall Street Journal asks: Are the troubling trend statistics inflated?

Attention parents, school administrators and other concerned citizens: The sexting phenomenon has reached danger level orange. Or red. Or whatever color indicates full-blown, media-crazed alert. Even Tyra recently spent an entire show discussing the topic (which she emphasized is a “very, and I mean you guys, very graphic new phenomenon”). And I would plunk down what’s left of my savings on a bet that “Law and Order: SVU” is putting the final touches on a sexting script.

Let’s take a trip through recent headlines: An 18-year-old from Orlando, Florida, has been sentenced to five years and forced to register as a sex offender after sharing a naked picture of his 16-year-old girlfriend with his friends. He is fighting to get his name removed from the registry, but for now, will remain on it until he’s 43 years old. Over at CNN, Mike Galanos, host of CNN’s “Prime News,” adds his name to the list of critics concerned that labeling kids as adult pedophiles might be taking all of this a bit too far. As he writes, “It’s clear we need to change our laws to catch up with technology.”

Galanos quotes a ubiquitous statistic, one that has been used in nearly every sexting article to date, bolstering parents’ worst fears: a poll conducted last fall by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy and CosmoGirl.com found that 20 percent of teens had sent or posted online nude or semi-nude photos or videos of themselves. But the Wall Street Journal is questioning the reliability of those numbers. Apparently, the same adolescents who are comfortable using technology to explore their sexuality may be more likely to respond to a poll conducted online, thereby inflating the poll’s conclusions.

But whether it’s one in five or one in a thousand, it’s quite clear that at this point, some teens are going to bare all (or some) digitally. As Tracy Clark-Flory wrote in her February feature story on sexting, “These digital offerings bring the potential for humiliation and blackmail if the photos or video get into the wrong hands — and, let’s face it, they often do.”

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Isabella Rossellini gets it on with sea animals

The actress discusses "Green Porno," the online series in which she has sex (yes, sex) with bugs and barnacles.

When Isabella Rossellini sees that we have a video camera, she calls for her makeup artist. It’s just after lunch and she says, “I ate my lipstick,” in her ambiguous but succulent accent, a remnant of her childhood in Italy and France with her cinematically celebrated parents, director Roberto Rossellini and actress Ingrid Bergman. We’re used to seeing Rossellini looking flawlessly glamorous in her movies (and as the face of Lancôme cosmetics for 14 years). But, recently, the actress has taken to wearing strange and unconventional disguises: a snail, an earthworm and a spider, among others.

She donned these costumes for “Green Porno,” an endearingly oddball series of short, educational films made for the Sundance Channel. The first season, about the sex lives of bugs, premiered last year. Created, written and acted by Rossellini, the two-minute movies were designed to be viewed on computers, cellphones and MP3 players. In each episode, Rossellini dressed up as one of those tiny insects, giving viewers a human-size look at the animal kingdom’s hidden sexual dramas. With a commitment to anatomical accuracy and utmost sincerity, Rossellini played opposite giant paper cutouts, which served as inanimate partners for her vigorous copulation. On April 1, the series begins its second season, this time focusing on the sexual habits of marine animals. Rossellini talked to us about her unintentional male-animal fetish and the naughty side of nature. 

How did you come up with the idea for the series?

Robert Redford [founder of the Sundance Film Festival] came up with the idea that the Internet might offer the opportunity to relaunch the short film series format, which had disappeared. The other thing is that Sundance is very interested in the environment. I’d just worked with them on a project called “My Dad Is 100 Years Old,” that I wrote about my father, Roberto Rossellini, and they offered me the opportunity to do these short films about the environment.

How did you end up deciding on marine animals for this season?

The first series I did on animals that I knew, that were in my garden and I had studied –  I could just lift a stone and find my earthworms. I wanted animals that everybody knew. We did the same for the sea creatures with the starfish and barnacle and clams, everything that people know. And the third series that comes out in the fall is again about fish, but this time it’s called “Bon Appetit Green Porno.” It is about animals we eat,  but again it has sea animals, because I found an incredible accomplice in a marine biologist called Claudio Campagna. I get the information from  books, but then to verify that I really understood it — when we do the costume, is it plausible that he has antennae like this? — it’s nice to have a real scientist collaborating.

You played male creatures in most of the first season, or a hermaphrodite, and you stuck with that this time around. Why?

You know, sometimes I play male because they move more. Like the spider, the female is four, five times bigger than the male and she just sits there on her spider web and it’s the male who has to walk and approach her.  So, I never really thought, “Oh, I’m playing male” — I was already playing spider. But after that people say, “You notice that you’re always playing male?” “Oh,” I say, “really? I played hermaphrodites too. I played female, I played the queen bee.” I think it’s more dictated by the costume. This series the costumes are sometimes 6 feet tall, 9 feet tall, you know, 10 feet tall!

The series is intended for online viewing or cellphones. What can you do online that you can’t do on TV or film? Is it a more flexible medium, or is it just cheaper?

The fact that it was mostly going to be seen on a small, mobile screen made me feel that it gave it this cartoonish look, four or five colors per film. So we have the background that is one color, and then I am the animal and I might have two or three colors, very contrasted. Because we saw that when you look at animation it looks very good on film, on television, and on a mobile. But if you see “Lawrence of Arabia,” you know, already on television you miss half of the film and if you see it on mobile, forget it, better not watch it. So that dictated the look of it: strong, vivid colors, simplicity in the art direction.

Have you ever wanted to do an animal whose sexual behavior was deemed too raunchy for the series?

No! I mean, there’s no censorship, you know, and I think that my commitment is to tell it as it is, the way it is in nature, and nature is infinitely scandalous.

Listen to the conversation here.  

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