Cary Tennis

The Since You Asked advice column by Cary Tennis ran in Salon.com from Oct. 17, 2001 to Oct. 1, 2013, and can be found in its entirety in Salon's archives. The column now continues on Cary's own site.

Should I divorce? I cheated Cary Tennis
I post amateur porn secretly Cary Tennis
Can I ask if you're gay? Cary Tennis
Millennials, unite! Cary Tennis
Down with trailer park shaming! Cary Tennis
My family won't leave! Cary Tennis
Can I speed up emotional healing? Cary Tennis
Dear Walt: I feel your pain Cary Tennis
She aspires to be a pothead! Cary Tennis
My boyfriend has a secret son Cary Tennis
I hate my amazing life Cary Tennis
I attract female bullies Cary Tennis
My great big Muslim-Jewish-atheist wedding Cary Tennis
Too hopeless to go on Cary Tennis
I hide my eating disorder Cary Tennis
Mister Big feels empty inside Cary Tennis
My shrink is huge! Cary Tennis
Why didn't I self-publish? Cary Tennis
My wife is emotionally dead Cary Tennis
I'm lost in a maze Cary Tennis
I'm pregnant. Don't tell the family! Cary Tennis
That mean roommate? That's my wife! Cary Tennis
How to shut down a boor? Cary Tennis
Help, I'm a lost millennial! Cary Tennis
Was I a bad retail employee? Cary Tennis
My meds just stopped working! Cary Tennis
Does my dad have Asperger's? Cary Tennis
DUI + art history degree = ? Cary Tennis
Blogger asks, "Am I a faker?" Cary Tennis
My advice: Lie to your mom! Cary Tennis