Joran van der Sloot
In love with a serial killer
Joran Van der Sloot boasts of the proposals he's received -- but "serial killer groupies" are not a new phenomenon
Joran Van der Sloot When you hear about a young man receiving loads of love letters, marriage proposals and even a plea from a woman wishing to have his baby, you might first think of a rock star, famous actor or powerful politician — not an accused killer. And yet, it’s Joran Van der Sloot who is making headlines today by bragging to the press about the number of women enamored with him. “One of them even wants me to get her pregnant,” he told the Dutch newspaper De Telegraaf. There is no trusting claims by an admitted liar like Van der Sloot, but feverish female attention isn’t at all unusual in high-profile murder cases — and I called up an expert to better understand why.
Scott Peterson received a marriage proposal during his first day on Death Row. “Night Stalker” Richard Ramirez, a rapist, serial killer and Satanist — and serious catch in some eyes, apparently — was inundated with mail from romantic admirers; and he even married while behind bars. Robert Chambers, the so-called Preppie Killer, is said to have had so many female fans attempting to smuggle him contraband that he had to be transferred to another facility. The attractive and charismatic Ted Bundy — a necrophiliac who confessed to more than 30 murders — was so notoriously popular with women that the rather dubious claim that he received 200 love letters a day still circulates. Even John Wayne Gacy Jr., who raped and murdered 33 young boys, netted significant female attention.
Back to the question of what it is about these murderous men that get some women going: Sheila Isenberg, author of “Women Who Love Men Who Kill,” told Salon that notoriety is a big part of it. Although Van der Sloot hasn’t been convicted in the murder of Stefany Flores Ramirez or the disappearance of Natalee Holloway, he’s been in the news for so many years now that “he’s almost as notorious as a convicted serial killer like Bundy or Ramirez,” she said. People are often drawn to celebrities, in hopes of soaking up some of their limelight, and the distinction between fame and notoriety seems to become blurrier every day. Not to mention, ”it’s easier to get a date or get attention from Joran than, say, Brad Pitt,” says Isenberg. “Pitt is going to ignore your letter, he’s not going to boast about your letter — but this guy is. He’s probably reading his letters and responding to them, because it puffs him up and raises his status in his own eyes.”
Then there is the excitement factor. These men provide a break from the quotidian — or, as Isenberg puts it, they aren’t the boring husband “who leaves his dirty socks on the floor.” She says that “if the guy’s behind bars, it’s always exciting.” You go to visit him in prison and you’re surrounded by “guards with guns and barbed wire — it’s not dirty socks on the floor.” No, it sure isn’t — in fact, it’s officially known as “hybristophilia,” which is the condition of being sexually aroused by people who have committed horrific crimes. Some of these women want to be violent themselves — often because of abuse in their past — but don’t feel capable of it, so they experience the thrill vicariously. Others are attracted to the safety of the situation — again, often because of abuse in their past: If a man is locked up for a long time, or sitting on Death Row, he doesn’t pose much of a real physical threat.
Other experts have focused instead on biological imperatives, turning to scenes observed in the animal world: Female orangutans, for example, have demonstrated a sexual preference for the largest, most confrontational and violent males. Murderous men embody perhaps the most extreme presentation of machismo imaginable; they are warriors without rules. “Serial killer groupies,” as they are cringingly nicknamed, “may be equating this sort of violence with masculine strength and then seeking it as a way to bring such a male into their lives, for protection and for producing offspring with a good chance for survival,” writes Katherine Ramsland for TruTV.com. “Thus, they’re responding to a biological drive that they may not even be aware of.”
It’s also true, though, that our culture tends to romanticize and fetishize violence. “We make heroes out of our shooter — whether the shooter is a good guy or a bad guy,” says Isenberg. “And women are turned on by heroes.”
Tracy Clark-Flory is a staff writer at Salon. Follow @tracyclarkflory on Twitter. More Tracy Clark-Flory.
Joran van der Sloot won’t talk to trial judge in Peru
Murder suspect retracts his confession, citing police intimidation, and clams up
Murder defendant Joran van der Sloot refused to speak to the Peruvian judge handling his case Monday, while a Dutch newspaper reported that he has retracted his confession.
Superior Court Judge Carlos Morales visited the 22-year-old Dutchman at the maximum-security prison in eastern Lima where Van der Sloot has been held since being charged with first-degree murder in the May 30 killing of a young woman he met playing poker in Peru’s capital.
But Van der Sloot would not talk, citing his lawyer’s petition to declare his confession void in the death of 21-year-old Stephany Flores, the court said in a statement.
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Security camera footage of Joran Van der Sloot and Stephany Flores playing poker Newly released casino security camera footage shows 21-year-old Stephany Flores strolling up to a poker table, introducing herself with a quick shake of the hand and sitting in an empty chair next to accused murderer Joran Van der Sloot. They play, they chat and, ultimately, they slide their chairs back from the table and amble out of the casino together. Previously released footage shows what happened soon after: They walk through the lobby of his hotel and head straight for the 22-year-old’s room.
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Tracy Clark-Flory is a staff writer at Salon. Follow @tracyclarkflory on Twitter. More Tracy Clark-Flory.
Joran van der Sloot in Peruvian prosecutors’ hands
Police chief: "We've practically closed the case"
Police moved Joran van der Sloot to a cell at the prosecutor’s office on Thursday as officials prepared to file charges following what they called a remarkably complete confession in the beating and strangling death of a 21-year-old woman.
“We’ve practically closed the case,” criminal police chief Gen. Cesar Guardia told The Associated Press.
Sheathed in a bulletproof vest, the young Dutchman was driven less than a mile across central Lima during rush hour in a police convoy.
Continue Reading CloseFBI paid Joran van der Sloot at least $15,000 in extortion sting
U.S. authorities wired money and delayed arresting him in attempt to build Natalee Holloway murder case
**CORRECTS CAPITALIZATION IN NAME: V IS CAPITALIZED **FILE -- In a June 4, 2010 file photo Dutch citizen Joran Van der Sloot is escorted by police officers outside a Peruvian police station, near the border with Chile in Tacna, Peru. Peruvian police said Tuesday June 7, 2010 Dutchman Joran Van der Sloot has confessed to killing a young woman in his Lima hotel room last week. (AP Photo/Karel Navarro/file)(Credit: AP) U.S. authorities paid Joran van der Sloot at least $15,000 in a sting operation and delayed arresting him because they were trying to help build a murder case against him in the 5-year-old slaying of Natalee Holloway in Aruba, two federal law enforcement officials said Wednesday.
During that delay, van der Sloot arrived in Lima, Peru, on May 14, and authorities say he has confessed to last week’s killing of a 21-year-old woman in his hotel room there.
The law enforcement officials say the investigation into Holloway’s unsolved murder was revived about six weeks ago when van der Sloot reached out to someone close to Holloway’s mother in Alabama and requested $250,000 in exchange for disclosing the location of Holloway’s body on the island of Aruba.
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U.S. Attorney says Joran van der Sloot tried to get $250,000 in exchange for location of missing girl's body
A Dutch man suspected in the 2005 disappearance of Natalee Holloway in Aruba has been charged in Alabama with trying to extort $250,000 in return for giving the location of her body.
The criminal complaint against Joran van der Sloot also accuses him of promising to describe the circumstances of Holloway’s death.
The U.S. attorney filed the charge Thursday in federal court in Birmingham.
According to a sworn statement, van der Sloot got a partial payment of $15,000 wired to a Netherlands bank.
The name of the person paying the money was not given. Van der Sloot has long been a suspect in the 18-year-old Alabama woman’s disappearance.
Van der Sloot was arrested Thursday in Chile in the death of a 21-year-old woman from Peru.
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