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What I’ve discovered is that every single day of this marriage, I’ve learned more about me than about Ernie. Until I took responsibility for my own needs and for making changes, until I stopped expecting my husband to live up to my fantasies, I often felt powerless and frustrated …

Is that how you want to live with your husband? Of course not.

Can you have a happy marriage forever? Yes. It can be done.

— From “Being Married Happily Forever” by Tova Borgnine.

By Salon Staff

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