I'm a "massage" parlor regular

A reader is pursuing his budding interest in Asian women without his wife's knowledge, and feels like he can't stop

By Tracy Clark-Flory

Published December 16, 2011 1:00AM (EST)

Massage Parlor Sign (Getty Images)
Massage Parlor Sign (Getty Images)

I am an early-40's, very successful man with a great family and a beautiful wife. Over the course of the past year, I have developed a terrible obsession with Asian women. It's unexplainable to me, as my wife has been great to me, loves sex, and really is an incredibly beautiful woman. However, I find myself thinking constantly about Asian women, during the day, during workouts, at night when I should be sleeping. It's completely new to me as I have never been attracted to Asian women, and it really is interfering with my life.

I have been visiting Asian "spas" now a couple of times a week, and in the morning when I should be working, I'm instead surfing the Web trying to find a way to meet Asian women. It's to the point where I'm acting like a teenager again around any type of Asian woman.

What the "f" is wrong with me? Why can't I just go back to being the stable family guy I was, interested in work, family and screwing my wife...

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