I'm fixated on my wife's past

After 25 years of marriage, a man finds himself suddenly obsessing about his partner's sexual history

By Tracy Clark-Flory

Published January 27, 2012 1:00AM (EST)

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Help! I've been married for nearly 25 years, and I can't stop obsessing over my wife's past sexual history.

When we first started seeing each other, she was married, I was married and we were both having affairs with other people. She told me in very exquisite detail about many -- if not all -- of her sexual adventures (many of them extramarital with married men). She went into great detail about how affairs started, when, where, the type of sex performed (oral/anal) with each man. Her sexual experience was far greater than mine.

I have asked her in recent months to recount what she told me 25 years ago about her sexual experiences. Not only will she not discuss it and gets angry about it, she now claims that she never did any of those things. Well, of course, I have some proof ...

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