Is everyone doing that?

"Am I Normal?": A reader asks if he's weird for not wanting to give his girlfriend a "facial"

By Tracy Clark-Flory

Published March 30, 2012 12:00AM (EDT)

      (<a href='http://www.shutterstock.com/gallery-597511p1.html'>Ioannis Pantzi</a> via <a href='http://www.shutterstock.com/'>Shutterstock</a>/Salon)
(Ioannis Pantzi via Shutterstock/Salon)

What's wrong with me that I don't want to ejaculate all over my partners' face?

Let me put that another way. From watching porn you'd think this or something like it is the heart's desire of every straight man, indeed the natural culmination of the sex act.

Nothing wrong with people who do like it, men or women. But you'd think this is the norm in straight sex. Even the amateurs do it -- presumably because they think anything else is some sort of...

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