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Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.

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A flirter’s dilemma: subtlety vs. success

Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
Joan Harris (Christina Hendricks) and Herb Rennet (Gary Basaraba) in "Mad Men," season 5, episode 11 (Michael Yarish/AMC)

Want a satisfying relationship? Don’t present yourself as a sex object

Gary W. Lewandowski Jr., Erin Hughes