Single mother asks: Is my son toy-deprived?

Author Nan Mooney reflects on what she can't afford to give her child.

Published November 18, 2008 8:16PM (EST)

Back in May, I interviewed journalist Nan Mooney about her latest book "(Not) Keeping Up with Our Parents: The Decline of the Professional Middle Class," which explores how stagnant wages and the rising cost of health care, education and retirement have driven middle-class Americans into financial insecurity. Over on Babble, Mooney's been telling her personal story about what it's like to be a single mother in her late 30s living in her parents' basement apartment in Seattle with her son, Leo.

In her latest essay, Mooney's reflects on her son growing up toy-thrifty in an ExerSaucer world:  "In part I'm proud to invest him with non-materialistic values," she writes. "But at times I feel guilty too. I'm not entirely convinced that never having a slate of developmental toys, a library full of books or a fancy birthday party won't actually hurt him in some way. What if in my efforts to pare down, I neglect to provide Leo with some crucial item that really would make him a happier, more successful, more well-rounded kid?"

Check it out here.

 


By Katharine Mieszkowski

Katharine Mieszkowski is a senior writer for Salon.

MORE FROM Katharine Mieszkowski


Related Topics ------------------------------------------

Broadsheet Children Family Love And Sex