Since You Asked

Flirting, with horses

I pay for the horse farm; my husband uses the horses to attract women

Cary Tennis Tuesday, Jul 2, 2013 12:00 AM UTC
Life Since You Asked, Marriage

My fiancé has a secret child

He lied to me. He cheated. I've called off the engagement. But I love him. He says he'll change. Can this work?

Cary Tennis Monday, Jul 1, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 39
Life Since You Asked, Marriage

On gendered pronouns: I was wrong

I wish to apologize. And clarify. And argue for what I think is right

Cary Tennis Friday, Jun 28, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 62
Life Since You Asked, Gender

Writers in love

The selfishness of the artistic temperament makes for a dangerous mate

Cary Tennis Thursday, Jun 27, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 34
Life Since You Asked, Writers, Writing

Is my fiancé the right man?

He's loving and kind but he's not the hero I dreamed of

Cary Tennis Wednesday, Jun 26, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 77
Life Since You Asked, Love, dating

What do I owe my father?

My family has been horrible to me. Now my father is old. I don't want to see him. Do I have to?

Cary Tennis Tuesday, Jun 25, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 36
Life Since You Asked, Family, Fathers

Are my sisters being pimped?

My older sister wants to introduce the younger ones to much older men. Is this legal? Is it right?

Cary Tennis Monday, Jun 24, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 12
Life Since You Asked, Prostitution

More on NSA spying

What do freedom, liberty and privacy mean? Why do I feel they've been violated?

Cary Tennis Friday, Jun 21, 2013 12:00 AM UTC
Life Since You Asked, NSA

NSA: Lessons from the ’60s

History and experience teach us to mistrust the state and view its abuses with cool contempt

Cary Tennis Thursday, Jun 20, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 12
Life Since You Asked, nsa leak

NSA spying kills my faith in America

I thought privacy and the Fourth Amendment meant something. What do I tell my kids now?

Cary Tennis Wednesday, Jun 19, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 28
Life Since You Asked, NSA

I’m still angry about the affair

Three years later, I'm furious. Why now?

Cary Tennis Tuesday, Jun 18, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 61
Life Since You Asked, Marriage

I’m 18 and angry!

I hate my life! Plus I'm gay!

Cary Tennis Friday, Jun 14, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 21
Life Since You Asked, teenager

Should I tell my ex-lover?

I'm finally getting married and I wonder what to say

Cary Tennis Thursday, Jun 13, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 28
Life Since You Asked, relationships

Am I being slandered?

My former co-worker is spreading lies that are hurting my reputation. What can I do?

Cary Tennis Wednesday, Jun 12, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 23
Life Since You Asked, Gossip

My boyfriend is paranoid

He thinks he's being persecuted

Cary Tennis Tuesday, Jun 11, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 40
Life Since You Asked, Mental Illness

My high-school ex is an embezzler

Should I write to him in prison? Should I send him money for toiletries?

Cary Tennis Monday, Jun 10, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 16
Life Since You Asked, embezzlement

Is my sister after my beau?

I really like my new boyfriend but apparently so does she

Cary Tennis Friday, Jun 7, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 20
Life Since You Asked, Sisters

She was like a mother to me

My mother-in-law filled in for the mother I wish I had. Now she's dead and I'm blinded by grief

Cary Tennis Thursday, Jun 6, 2013 12:00 AM UTC
Life Since You Asked, mother-in-law

I’m a lonely country girl

I love living on this organic farm but the eligible men are few. I've got a "gaggle" but it's kinda sparse

Cary Tennis Wednesday, Jun 5, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 46
Life Since You Asked, organic food

My sister bullies me

She and my mother-in-law gang up and make life miserable

Cary Tennis Tuesday, Jun 4, 2013 12:00 AM UTC 24
Life Since You Asked, Family

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