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Salon's social bootcamp

Kirsten Schofield
(<a href='http://www.istockphoto.com/portfolio/AZemdega'>Andrejs Zemdega</a> via <a href='http://www.istockphoto.com/'>iStock</a>/Salon)

Salon's social bootcamp

Kirsten Schofield
(<a href='http://www.shutterstock.com/g/Paul+Rich+Studio'>Paul Rich Studio</a> via <a href='http://www.shutterstock.com/'>Shutterstock</a>/Salon)

Salon's social bootcamp

Kirsten Schofield
Haruki Murakami (AP/Stan Peska)

Sarah Gray