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Topic: Since You Asked

The “Since You Asked” advice column written by Cary Tennis ran on Salon from 2001 to 2013. The entire “Since You Asked” archives can be viewed here.

Cary Tennis (Photo courtesy of Cary Tennis)

Cary Tennis on his advice that endures

Mary Elizabeth Williams

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I post amateur porn secretly

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Can I ask if you're gay?

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Millennials, unite!

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Down with trailer park shaming

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My family won't leave!

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Can I please heal faster?

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Bryan Cranston as Walter White in "Breaking Bad" (AMC/Ursula Coyote)

Dear Walt: I feel your pain

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She aspires to be a pothead!

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My boyfriend has a secret son

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I hate my amazing life

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I attract female bullies

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Muslim-Jewish-atheist wedding

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Too hopeless to go on

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I hide my eating disorder

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Mister Big feels empty inside

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My shrink is huge!

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Why didn't I self-publish?

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My wife is emotionally dead

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I'm lost in a maze

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How to tell the family?

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That mean roommate is my wife!

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How to shut down a boor?

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